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Hi! How often do you encounter situations where you are told that you don't look your age? I constantly encounter such comments and it's a real problem because many people in correspondence have completely different ideas about me.
I'm a guy and I look too feminine (???)
(It's so hard to look your age (；⌣̀_⌣́)
The most common question I get asked is "are you a girl or a boy?", many people like "alpha males"...(Maybe it's not that bad, I don't consider myself an ugly person or weird)
Previously, this was really one of my complexes and I would like to look a little "manly", but these thoughts sometimes come back to me and begin to torment my head.
Did you have a similar complex?
I would appreciate any opinion.
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ethan (taylor's version)
i felt the same way as you for the longest time, i personally don't dress more feminine but felt insecure about how i dressed based off of literally nothing!! people didn't bother me about it, i just didn't feel "cool enough" or "manly enough", but then i realized that most of the men i was making myself feel lesser than were more insecure than me!! they feel like they have to be "nonchalant" and listen to the right artists and say the right things and wear the right clothes or they'll be called cringe by guys just like them. why should i or anybody care what they have to say if they can't even feel good about themselves?? live life how you like hon, don't let anybody or anything make you feel lesser than you truly are as nobody will ever be cool if they aren't letting the world see their true self :DD just remember that the world is your oyster and you can DO ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
evil jonkler
DUDE it doesnt matter at all, imo feminine men are SO gorgeous and like as long as youre comfortable with yourself then its fine <333
Gini
ugh it doesnt matter as long as u like it dont care about other people's opinion here we have an idiom that "logo ka kaam h kehna" meaning its people's job to say things u cant stop them but can surely ignore them listen to urself oki? like people legit bullied me on my looks and it affected me only till i was listening to them but as soon as i realized that its my choice if i nlike it who are they to tell me then everything became good so i just wanna say dont care if u are okay with it and its not bad!
Garf
As long as you feel comfortable does it really matter? Just do you man ദ്ദി( •̀ ᴗ - )
FrīZza
Everyone will see you in their own way. spending time on everyone's opinion... strange. so you better think about how you look in your own eyes.
Holster
tbh
u look very emo boy
not even twink level
its not a bad thing per say
but im also kinda confused
what do u mean by this isnt propaganda
what part of ur question is propaganda
I once wrote something similar on another social network and I was accused of LGBT propaganda and the post was reported :(
Sometimes I don't understand people and what they mean
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GizZzmo
Everyone has their complexes and it is totally normal that you don't like something about yourself, but I wouldn't say that not looking "masculine" is a problem, it's you and that's it, you don't have to think about things so much.
I like your words.
You are right, I will try not to think about unnecessary things :)
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