Problems with tulpa creation

So, i've been planning to make a tulpa since 2022, and last year (2024) fall I started making him.

If you don't know what is a tulpa, it's like an imaginary friend. Reddit and google might give anwsers lol.

Anyways, his name is Mike and he is ENFJ... I think? That's the personality I describe him as. I have been trying to imagine his appearance in our wonderland, thinking of us sitting in the couch and chatting and I do this every day but I don't think there's any progress... I guess my ADHD kinda mixes it all up and makes it more difficult for me. Yes, yes I know tulpa creation takes time, but I fear I might be doing something wrong, and I don't want to stress too much about it...

Or is it just too early for me to create a tulpa? I need advice ;_; I will anwser comments, and ask if something is unclear.

Made by finnish person, so sorry if the english isn't great.