Guy probs

Heyy, idk if anyone is reading or how good this will be, but its my first blog so I think I have a excuse. I also don't really know what to do but i will write now research later, but imma just rant for this one. Also I will be using fake names out of respect of peoples privacy.

Anyways, I have always had guy problems theres no way around them unless you like girls but that still can be tricky. Theres this guy and he is one of my best friends cousin, which I understood going into it that it could be risky but I totally regret that now. 

To start off my friends lets call her Bella told me that her cousin, lets call him Jake, was single and I didn't know how to react but the more I looked at him the more attractive he grew. Starting off thats always a bad sign, when you don't find him or his personality attractive. But I told Bella thinking nothing was actually going to happen, but low and behold it did. Over winter break I didn't think about Jake at all, and when I got back to school Bella and her best friend, Fiona, were basically pushing me to him not only physically but mentally too by always talking about him around me and asking me about him. Bella and Fiona doing that lowkey made me very uncomfy, like I know I called him cute but I also told Bella I wasn't ready at the VERY start when she brought it up.

The next week Jake gave me a note like wtf man we arn't in middle school. The note basically said hey whats your snap and so I gave it to him to be kind and not have Bella be mad at me. The rest of the time we were "Talking" I rarely replied and was very dry when I did hoping he would take a hint, like he nice and all but he's really not my type, eventually I told him and he said were chill and he'd "wait till I'm ready". Jake needs to learn to take a hint. Back to Bella I know she'll be mad I mean she super judgey and you don't want to make her mad but even though Jake said were chill I know that Bella will still be super angry.

Any recommendations?