Do we accept the love that we deserve?

I've gotten to thinking about how we've evolved as people. In the past almost 30 years we've evolved so quick. When email became a thing Carrie from SATC had said is this our future? Do actions speak louder than words from hear on out? It feels weird hearing that now being from the future. Because her question was valid. Words do speak louder than actions ever since technology came forth. Back then you had your beepers, I remember my parents talking about it. What a time to be alive. Back then your actions are who you are as a person, you confront people head on about relationship problems or problems in general. You have EMOTION. Words didn't matter as much. I wish it were still like that. It's hard to tell who people are now, especially for me. You see older movies and you see everyone's individuality, their defying trait. I can't tell apart most people from others anymore. I do believe in sonder. It's just harder to when this is real. I think it's because I don't know too many people personally to know what goes on in their daily lives. I wish I did. I do care even about people I don't know as well. I just wish I knew these things. To tell apart peoples actions from their words. Or maybe I do. It's hard for me to comprehend most peoples words when they arent showing me they actually do care. Care about me.