Batman x Batgirl: one of DC's most disgusting ships

Batman X Batgirl or Bruce Wayne x Barbara Gordon has to be one of the most questionable and disgusting ships, I guarantee DC that nobody asked for this ship. It's so weird in many ways like 1. Barbara in MOST cases is Jimmy Gordon's daughter and Jimmy Gordon is Batman's best friend 2. In the context of some iterations mainly The batman animated series and the killing joke movie, Barbara's age is place no higher than 21 or lower than 17 (in the batman animated series, she's also placed as the same age as Dick Grayson which Bruce took in when he was 9-13 so er..) 3. The creepiness factor kicks up by 90% in both the Batman animated series and The killing joke movie by the fact that Bruce Wayne watched her grew up 

I fucking hate this ship with my ENTIRE being, it's so weird and I wish to never see this again, it's crazy that batman kissed his friend's daughter who has a questionable age gap with him before he could even kiss superman smh...