abuse.

abuse.. yes that's how were starting it. how to you handle it? do you tell someone, or keep it private? what is abuse? are there different types of abuse? 

hello. i struggle with abuse and this may help you or answer your questions. ps. if you have nothing positive to say i suggest not say anything whatsoever, this is vent free/hate free zone and i dont tolerate it. please leave hate somewhere else. 

what is abuse? you may be mentally or physically abused. mentally is just a behavior that causes emotional or mental harm. which is very common but not as much as physical abuse. alot of people suffer with it. you may think "abuse" and the first thing running throughout your mind.. (are there different types of abuse?) is physical right? that quite sums up "abuse". how do you handle it? well, good question.. telling someone about the situation could help a lot.. no matter who the abuser is, which leads us into another question. do you tell someone? infact if someone is touching you in general without consent you should probably tell them to stop or if they dont listen, tell somebody. keep it private? you should never keep stuff like that a secret, but some might not know how to fix, handle, comprehend being abused. as someone who also doesnt know how.. its understandable keeping it a secret but if you're that person that does aswell i have a feeling you obviously dont want it to happen, you dont know how to seek help, or how to come out about it. well here, im telling you through my journey and helping others aswell. hearing out other peoples words can very much help with your own problems.

say, i know many people that have parent or step-parents that get drunk some nights and get angry and abusive, thats very common. thats where you need to seek help for not only yourself but for them aswell. not only is it just adults but you could have a friend that just thinks its funny and joking around, hitting you. but honestly it hurts, alot. how do you tell them? they're just going to think your joking, laugh about it, or start a fight.. i dont know the answer to that one, unfortunately i wish i could. i dont know how to handle all of that. 

do they know??

how do you tell someone they're actually hurting you, its not a joke. i dont know either. and that leaves a good question, how do you tell someone whom is an unknown abuser that they're abusive? 

            -angelicxflic