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I dont see how u guys can juggle having a bf and having a REGULAR LIFE. I am only 14 years old I really don't think I'm ready but yk evb I know is in a relationship so I js thought I would give it a try. I started dating this guy he's just a year older so I expected some kind of maturity. Turns out I was WRONG. This guy is so overly sensitive ot drives me NUTS. You might think I'm being mean but put urself in my shoes Okay?? We are all in a group at my friends house and for some reason him and I are alone. Then out of nowhere he's like "I think i want to marry you" ??? My first thought was IS HE CRAZY?? I am only 14 and marriage is the last thing on my mind. I feel like this generation takes relationships too seriously. Everyone is DELUSIONAL AND THINKS ITS CUTE ???? ABSOLUTELY NOT. I'm going to graduate school, go to college for photography, focus on my career for at least a decade, then MAYBEEE if I'm feeling STUPID ill settle down at the age of 30 something. I say "I dont think we should be worried about things like that" and he gets MAD and ignores me for the rest of the day. Later when he finds out that I don't care if I'm ignored, he texts me saying "Sorry about earlier. I'm sensitive ab things like that" so I BLOCK HIM
OVERLY SENSITIVE MALES!!! AITA??
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Raving C0ncr3te xD
YOU'RE NOT TH3 ASS AND 1 STAND BY IT
dadrockenthusiast
honestly coming from someone who's been in a relationship for over a year now, this kind of stuff is just what happens when you try to date so young. people don't know how to love correctly or hold a stable (real) relationship at this age so you're bound to run into some bs nine times outta ten. then again, stuff like this happens with adults all the time, too, so it's also about choosing the right guy. best of luck tho!!
Ruth
Olha eu acho que vocês tem que estar sintonizados nessa relação, esse cara é bem emocionado e creio eu que impulsivo. Vocês são jovens, não precisam fazer tudo as pressas, ele precisa entender isso e ser mais maduro. Os homens costumam ser menos racionais que as mulheres, se ele não botar na própria cabeça que já tem você, essa relação não vai acabar bem (os dois sairão machucados).
Boa sorte.
â™± ara â™±
te entiendo completamente, yo soy ese tipo de persona que odio que me controlen, que me quieran domar y que no me den mi espacio, siento como si me asficiaran y lo peor es que luego le hacÃan sentir culpable por pedir mi espacio por eso si tengo q hablar d ex, solo he tenido 2 pero al que más odio es al segundo es ese chico con complejo de Tom de 500 dÃas con summer y que cree que siempre es la vÃctima, simplemente un asco
Victor The Vampire
Ok 1: You aint the asshole
2: You made the right choice of not caring about him being sensitive.
People like that CRAVE a reaction. Good job at just continuing being yourself.
Also, wild that he brought that up marriage so casually and then got mad you didn't want those conversations. Like what a crybaby dude
x.avalon.x
you are so me queen.
I cannot date a man after everything I've heard and experienced.. 4b all the way!
More than that, YES! Ever man, nay, every person in this generation is so so obsessed with love and marriage meanwhile half of them don't even have DREAMS? Grades be tragic and they will still be talking about some 'my man my man my man'
I could be jealous bc Ive never been in a relationship but I knew there was something fishy going on
val
ur super valid to not be thinking about any of those things ur still young ! if anything its nice to see u wanna be focused on school and ur career thts the smart choice to make :), and from what ur saying this guy is a little immature and is only gonna cause trouble in the long run. i dont mean this in a bad way but i def reccomend not being in a relationship with him lol. be young and single its more fun !
berry
stories like this is what motivates me to stay single lowk
- 11 years going strong
NIYAH:]
OMG YES i try to have a normal conversation and all they wanna talk about is having kids. What if i don't want kids??? And whenever i say i'm gonna be right back they say "to talk to other boys?" LIKE NO TO TAKE A POOP. I hate it when they also ask for "pics" of my body... LET ME TAKE A SHOWER IN PEACE PLS.also don't get me started whenever i go a day with out talkiing to them they are like "do you not like me anymore?" LIKE IDK TAKE A WILD GUESS.
ngl half of the men these days just want sex and to see women's bodies like they are just some object, and they don't care about anything else and then wonder why they can't keep a girl like bro.....
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OMG YESS LIKE I JUST WANT SOME ONE TO BRING ME HAPPINESS I DON'T WANT LUST OR WHATEVER.
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