i yap about problem(s) i have

a family member told me that i "make everything about my gender all the time" and it's so dumb because:

1. no i dont

2. why would that be a bad thing

like if in every conversation, i was just like "lol i use she/her pronouns" that would kind of get old, because if someone talks about one thing every time you talk to them, it'll get annoying. but i don't make everything about me being trans. they treat me wanting to be a girl like it's some terrible thing. it's not my fault, so why am i getting shit for it?? and if i tell them that, they'll just say "erm, you can just not talk about it all the time then?" please for the love of god stop talking to me. what happened to if you have nothing nice to say then say anything at all??? because how i interpret "just stop talking about it" is "i feel uncomfortable about your gender and you should be ashamed of yourself for mentioning it". and then when i say THAT, they WITHOUT FAIL, ALWAYS SAY, "but i didn't say that though". and my fist passes through my computer screen, because do you have zero critical thinking skills? did you not hear the second half of my sentence???????

new tangent

queerness should not be political, i dont care. the safety of the people in our country doesn't rely on whether i like girls or boys, and when people say "queer" and "politics" in the same sentence i want to vomit. straight people weren't politicized before, so why are queer people being politicized now???? it makes no sense to me.