RELATIONSHIP getting tuff and i need help

so me and my gf have been dating since the start of November it was cool we did all the normal stuff a loving couple would we are long distance couple we only have seen each other one time during winter brake but things have gotten rally old and stale quick I'm very spread when it comes to talking to people me and her would call all the time 2/47 at the start of our relationship but i started to become distant i would not call as much but some times i was doing some thing like taking out garbage or doing the dishes it just got annoying my tolerance for her became less and less she is moving back home to NY and she keeps asking to meet me to go bowling she want me to ask my mom she brings it up a lot i deflect it by coming up with excuses but its not helping i just keep getting deeper in the rabbit hole that i dug for myself i want to brake up but i just don't want to hurt her its not like she's a bad person she amazing but i just don't want a log distance relationship and i don't know what to do and its very draining putting up this act so what do i do