People will always judge, no matter what you do, they will find a flaw in you.

Okay,  we can talk about this?

Sometimes your own family talks sh!t about you, and that sucks.

I think respect is earned, imagine your own family demanding respect but they treat you like a sh!t, it's like... Are you okay?  just because they are older than you doesn't mean they have the right to treat you the way they want. 

I would just tell them "go to hell", don't they have a life of their own? Are they my fans?  

I just want to be more direct, you can tell anyone to fck off because... they really shouldn't have control over you and your way of expressing yourself (what you like, books, movies, style, hair type, makeup, piercings, among other things. 

or maybe someone else does, maybe your "friends" (They really aren't if they judge you), your parents, your classmates, your teachers, and many more  

But really what they do is see themselves in you, it's like a mirror, they see your defects but that is their insecurity. 

Just be confident in yourself, you are much better than those people who always talk sh!t about you.