I have a lot of styles that I love, like bimbo, emo,grunge,scene,y2k...
But none of these styles are "common", I am really scare about dress as I want.
And I also dread the fact of not finding any community with whom I can get along and of not feeling in my place, even though I have understanding friends and I am social.
So I would like to know how it went for you, your feelings etc...
(I am also young, I think )
Sorry if you don't if you didn't understand what I wrote, I working in my english and use a little bite of Google translator.
Bisous :3
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issi
hi hi! i started dressing up in like 2021 during the pandemic. i started listening to alternative music so naturally i wanted to start dressing that way too. i had to take baby steps tho. at this point i had never even worn a skirt or dress to school so i had to go really slow and take my time. it helped that i was thrifting a lot because that means it takes more time to curate what you want.
I think i got the courage to dress up because i saw many people online (tiktok) doing it. it was becoming more common for people to dress differently so that really helped. To build up courage I started with adding a ton of accessories to normal outfits. My style uses a bunch of chains, belts, bracelets, and i also love giant earrings so i wore those first. Then I started to wear skirts. I would start to put ripped tights or fishnets under my skirts too. But thats as far as i went during highschool because we had a dress code lol.
But i kept the same friends and never really found an exclusively "alternative rock" community. My friends all found their own personal styles over time that werent the same as mine but were still unique.
Now that im in college i still dont have the alternative friend group i always wanted but I'm still happy with my current friends cuz they love me.
I hope u can wear the style you want to soon!! <3
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Thank you so much I will try to do the same thing and go little by little :>
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