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so therez this person tat i <3 and we were tgether for a whilez n recently we broke up cuz they said tat they have trouble tryin to figure out who dey are but they said tat they still <3 me too n i wanna giv them space but at the same time im scared tat i will loose feelins for them meanwhile.
Its makin me rlly confused cuz tgey keep tellin me tat they love me but don wanna be tgther even tho they r tellin me how much they love mah n kissies n its makin me rlly rlly confused 0_o
anybdy got adivice?
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bkenny
I love being able to decipher emonese.
You should take action. It's never a good sign when somebody does things that make you feel unloved, but they say that they still love you. Since I don't know what they're doing to find themselves, I can't really pinpoint what's happening, but what I will say is that you should have a serious talk with them and put your combat-boot-clad foot down. Give them an ultimatum: they either stay with you and explain what it is that they're doing to "find" themselves or they stop saying they love you and also explain what it is that they're doing to "find" themselves. You can't really have a healthy relationship where one person just branched off but is still doing relationship things while simultaneously finding themselves.
I hate to be the snake that puts bad thoughts into the minds of others, but what exactly are they doing? My first thought was that finding themselves meant they were questioning their sexuality, and my second thought was that they may be exploring that sexuality by having relationships/relations with others. That would be very bad, and if that's what they're doing, cut them off. In general, if you can't be with yourself, you can't be with someone else. They need to clean up their act or get out.
I hope that either you get a loving relationship or the truth. Feel better, friend.
-bkenny
CARBON >--[O_O]--<
awh man that really sux :C mixed signals are the worst and are kind of what ruin relationships a lot of the time!! probably talk to your person about what they really want or youll probably be confused and sad trying to figure it out urself. good luck!!!! :]