Teenage Troubles w Jassy: Finding that Balance

What up yall! Coming from a teenager, there's TONS and TONS of things that we see others overexaggerate literally anything without even realizing that we do it ourselves. One thing ive been able to learn about being a teenager is that sometimes, its REALLY hard to find a middle ground. Either your too involved with your insecurities or your too obsessed with others would just be one of the numerous examples. So, now you may be asking, "Jassy, if there are soo many extremes, how am i supposed to find that common area?" well my friends, after asking myself this wayyy to many times, i have your answer: mindset.

Sometimes when finding that balance, its all about being in the right headspace which brings me to my number one:

1.DROP THEM FAKE FRIENDS!!! 

We all know these type of people, they are so self absorbed and rude, they never see how their actions affect you, and overall they just suck! Even if you don't see it at first, your bound to see it at the end of the road(or your friendship). Fake friends end up having some of the worst attitudes and when you constantly expose yourself to those things, it really damages you(trust me ive been there 0/10 recommended) . You end up seeing yourself in different ways, it can influence bad behavior and make you do things you normally wouldnt, and it ends up being a really bad look for you and that fake friend. Dont get me wrong, making friends can and usually is hard, but with enough perseverance, you got this and eventually you will find friends that are ment just for you!

After going through that, im at my second suggestion:

2. EVALUATE YOUR FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS!

As a teenager, your still growing! Your body is changing, hormones are out of wack and for my ladies that time of the month REALLY takes a toll. Having all of that said, your going to see things very differently than from how you used to or how you will in the future, one of those things being current life events and your emotions. When finding that middle ground in life at this point, you need be able to sort out how your feeling and what these feelings are. So, step back somtimes and really analyze how your feeling. Trust, its a huge help

Now to wrap things up and keep it short, my finale,my last but certaily not least, my third recommendation:

3. KEEP GOOD COMPANY AND FOCUS ON YOU!!!!!!

Keeping good company really ties into my No. 1,but it kinda had to be said. Keeping people that you can trust and rely on really helps. Even though I havent had the best experience with friends over the years, i still find those people i can trust and really talk to when i need advice or help, almost like a sibling. Good company ties into focusing on you because when you have those people that believe in you and are your advocates and voices in your life, it helps push you forward like an engine or motor that keeps you going. No matter what happens, its always going to be YOUR life so why not actually treat it well?

ALRIGHT MY LUVLIESS! This concludes todays blog but check back in a few days. Heres something to think about though: What do you do right now to keep you sane and in check? Let me know in the comments and give me feedback plss. This was my first actual blog post. ANYWAYS LOVE AND BLESSINGS TO YOU ALL <3

ttyl:)!-js2jassy