★BEFORE YOU ADD★

some stuff i think users should know before adding me or accepting my adds (:

♡ im VERY block-happy... if i block you its either because i find you ANNOYING for any reason under the sun or because youre just messed up (whether its because of bigotry or supporting weird shit like lolicon)

♡ i can also be somewhat defriend-happy because i easily can feel overwhelmed by my friend count and also because my intuition occasionally feels off

♡ i ignore friend requests from people that are under 15 and over 19!!!!! and people that dont have any age or age range on their page to begin with!!!!! also i always decline requests from private profiles because id like to know what someones like before adding them

♡ it can sometimes take me foreverrrrr to accept adds so dont take it personally if it takes more than 7 days for me to accept yours even though im fairly active

♡ uhhhh... im MALE in ALL CAPS!!!!! and a he/him by extension!!!!! ik the first bit is on my profile but im clarifying it again on here because its really easy to gloss through on♂♂♂

♡ i struggle with IMing ppl first ): i mostly show my appreciation with comments on blogs and bulletins (whenever i know what to say) and trying to interact on my own bulletins and blogs... i appreciate everyone that engages with me no matter how much or little (:

♡ im active but sometimes i could go a couple days without posting much on my end (usually because im overwhelmed or just because i dont have anything interesting to talk about)... other times i can post a shit-ton in a day!!!!! KEEP IN MIND i primarily use spacehey as a more casual and slow social media platform as i work on my mental health

♡ speaking of mental health i tend to use bulletins as a way to reflect on it!!!!! i vent but its never too negative and its mostly so i can healthily work through my emotions and understand them in a constructive way

♡ im a loud texter in the sense where i break into caps often and make a lot of quips... im a very chalant person and if youre easily overwhelmed by that then youre better off not contacting me

♡ i have low empathy and i adore goodnaturedly teasing ppl im online friends with and being playfully arrogant to anyone i like PLEASE tell me if im ever taking it too far and hurting you because i struggle to identify when im being mean or overbearing and i need openness on both sides

♡ im clinically neurodivergent so PLEASE BE PATIENT WITH ME!!!!!

♡ i dont use tone tags but i do clarify a lot of things and if youre confused about something i sent just ask me whatever questions you may have

THERE WE GO (: you may also ask any questions as needed