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I'm feeling worried about my friend group drifting apart from each other but then 5 minutes later I'm like "well I don't really care" and it repeats like a cycle in my mind. I love them dearly but I feel like some of them don't put in the effort to communicate which is so frustrating I can't even begin to explain it because I hate to be the person to initiate everything.

I'm practicing detachment but there's still a long way ahead of me :(


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Omg, I dislike people with a passion that don't put as much effort into communicating back to me. It's one of my biggest pet peeves, very strict with that. You deserve others that want to seek you every hr of their day. My best advice is to talk it out first, and if you don't see improvement, then the best thing to do is to leave because you’ll be stuck in that cycle for a while, and time is a very valuable thing.

I would offer my discord server, but I don't think we have much in common besides steins;gate + I just met you lol


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Yeah you could call it a pet peeve of mine as well, I get very frustrated over that quickly. Like I'm obviously not expecting to give their whole lives for me but if I put in effort and my time to talk to you thn it's normal that I would expect the same??? I got called selfish over that but I don't think that's the case.

And no worries about the server, thank you for giving me some advice, I appreciate it :)

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