mini rant on aro and/or ace stuff

people treat asexual and aromantic people so terribly .

examples 

Asexual person dating someone: Im asexual.

Person: How are you dating someone???

 you can be romantic and not have to be sexual .

Asexual person: [Experience that im not going to type out]

Person: But you’re asexual?

Asexuality is a spectrum.

Aroace person: Hi! This is my partner!

Person: No that isnt. You’re aroace.

aromantic is a spectrum asexual is a spectrum. 

Ace person: Im hypersexual.

Person: No you’re not.

There is a difference between mental struggle and sexuality. hypersexuality is not a willing decision and is most common in traumatized people or the disorderly.  It is like having a fridge, but having nothing in the fridge.