As y'all know, I live in a foster home. And trust me it's better than my actual home. I know I won't be in the home long. I will soon have to go with my father (not a bad thing I love my bio father) there is this guy, I think I like him, it's been two months and I've been crushing on him..I don't want to fall in love cuz i know i wont stay! I know I can't work a long distance relationship because I'm the worst at staying communicated unless I am texted first..but texting through space hey has been helping with it(Thankfully!) but still. But then I feel like I'm stepping on eggshells when the relationship isn't long distance. I'm scared of doing anything, and I just want it to be kept between whoever I date.(Not like I have much luck anymore, I avoiding ppl more often then usual cuz I'm obviously scared:6) I just dont want to be in love, but he makes me smile on my worst days, he calls me another nickname. Everytime he walks past me, I can't help but turn my head, sometimes I just look around the class to see if I can catch a glimpse of him. My lips can't help but crack into a smile...ughhhh...being a teenager in love is a pain!!
(update: I kinda forgot about the red flags. He is a total stoner and is a 'Gangster' as my friend put it since she has known him since they were 7. plus she also told me that he does better alone-Meaning he is not much into dating-which I get and it hurts a little tiny bit. ughhhh! I just like him no matter what anyways. he makes me smile and I honestly can live with just that :D; 1:26 PM November 20, 2024)
Maybe I do...I want simple love :) me and him talk a lot and hang out at school, even if he worries me a lot I care about him and wish him the best even if I'm not staying >-<; 8:51 AM December 20, 2024)
Talking with him is nice. we just came back from break and I didn't talk much, later after school he texted me asking why I didn't say hi to him, I just told him because I was tired (Which I was) and didn't talk much that day. I was sooo happy once I realized that he liked when I spoke to him (Well I think..) Seeing him smile when I spoke to him this morning was nice. if I was at home right now I would be twirling my hair and kicking my feet in the air!!! @w@; 9:29 AM January 7, 2025)
I don't think I feel anything for him anymore, I guess I really just want to be friends with him. I find him attractive, but I guess we don't have much of a connection...:/ every time we talk I treat him like the rest of my friends, no different.:p; 8:49 AM January 17, 2025)
I want a relationship and I don't. I want someone to give my love and I don't. I want someone to hold/ hold me and I don't. I feel like I am going down a spiral of what I want! There is this person named T (Just a nickname, not going to put actual name) who makes me feel funny in the stomach, every time I think of them I cant help but want something more than friendship with them. but we haven't even spoken because they only was we know each others name is because mi foster mommy talked to them and said "Hey do you go to (High school I go to)?" T said "No I go to (High school they go to) My foster mom then said "Ah! Because my daughter said she felt like she had seen you before! her name is (Dolly)! What is your name?" T said "My name is T (again, nickname)" My foster mom then said "Oh nice to meet you T, my daughter ('Dolly') said that she finds you cute." T said thank you and My foster mom came back to me and my Foster dad. The dioluge is what my foster mom recalls because I ran away once I saw her walking up to T, me and T would just glance and look at each other we never shared any words. T makes me feel really funny @u@ But then there's the guy from my school...I don't know anymore!!; 1:01 PM January 28, 2025)
It's a tough situation and sometimes you can't really fight what your heart wants. My best advice is to at least stay friends with this guy, develop and grow that friendship, and just see what happens in the future. At least then, you can still talk to him, and when (or if) that time comes when you feel comfortable enough to think about long-distance relationships then there's that door for you. Good luck.
omg i'm literally swooning just from reading this!! i can feel how much you like this guy, it's so sweet. i'm in a relationship rn too and i know how it feels to be kinda shy and not wanna get too attached. i love spending time in bed all day alone, just lazy and comfy and hornyyyy lol, but when u have someone special it's like you can't help but want to be around them. the way you described him making you smile is literally everything. i love that he has a nickname for you, that's so adorable!!! anywaysss, i can kinda relate to being scared of doing anything in a relationship, i'm a total introvert at heart, but when it comes to the person i care about, i don't know, it feels like everything else just fades away. i think it's great that you're being honest with yourself about how you feel, even if it is scary. do you think maybe you'll give him a chance, or are you really trying to stay away from love rn?
well I have been denying myself for two months and saying that it was going to pass (Speaking of which, he just came late to the classroom and I'm smiling to myself!!!) Valentine's Day is in 3 months I think- and I might just give him a little love note! (Before I ever thought of him romantically I didn't pay much attention to him until one day he was sitting between my table and his own table, he whispered something to his friend, and his friend then pointed at me and said "Her?" and turned and looked at them, I obviously got a bit nervous because I thought they were saying stuff about me then his friend asked me my name and I told her. she then pointed at him and said "He said he like you, that's why he sitting close to you cuz he like u" I got so nervous and since then I cant help but think of him..^///^) I hope that made a bit of sense!
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It's a tough situation and sometimes you can't really fight what your heart wants. My best advice is to at least stay friends with this guy, develop and grow that friendship, and just see what happens in the future. At least then, you can still talk to him, and when (or if) that time comes when you feel comfortable enough to think about long-distance relationships then there's that door for you. Good luck.
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omg i'm literally swooning just from reading this!! i can feel how much you like this guy, it's so sweet. i'm in a relationship rn too and i know how it feels to be kinda shy and not wanna get too attached. i love spending time in bed all day alone, just lazy and comfy and hornyyyy lol, but when u have someone special it's like you can't help but want to be around them. the way you described him making you smile is literally everything. i love that he has a nickname for you, that's so adorable!!! anywaysss, i can kinda relate to being scared of doing anything in a relationship, i'm a total introvert at heart, but when it comes to the person i care about, i don't know, it feels like everything else just fades away. i think it's great that you're being honest with yourself about how you feel, even if it is scary. do you think maybe you'll give him a chance, or are you really trying to stay away from love rn?
well I have been denying myself for two months and saying that it was going to pass (Speaking of which, he just came late to the classroom and I'm smiling to myself!!!) Valentine's Day is in 3 months I think- and I might just give him a little love note! (Before I ever thought of him romantically I didn't pay much attention to him until one day he was sitting between my table and his own table, he whispered something to his friend, and his friend then pointed at me and said "Her?" and turned and looked at them, I obviously got a bit nervous because I thought they were saying stuff about me then his friend asked me my name and I told her. she then pointed at him and said "He said he like you, that's why he sitting close to you cuz he like u" I got so nervous and since then I cant help but think of him..^///^) I hope that made a bit of sense!
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