Humans losing their humanity

Since i was a small kid i found other people very confusing. How do they just wake up, go to their jobs or school, come home, eat and sleep + repeat? Do they like this endless cycle? How do they do it? Only a small part of society want to break that hell of cycle. If i ever become 18 im surely not planning on being apart of it. Its just so confusing and now days is even worse, most teens have the same copy and paste personality, copy and paste clothes, copy and paste hobbies, copy and paste music taste, and more. I find it really sad watching humans slowly losing their humanity. Its really hard to explain but i hope at least a few people understand what im trying to say here. 

Being a human is confusing by itself but i think that being a person with no personality is way more confusing than anything. Doesnt it get boring at some point? Doesnt it get tiering? Dont you want to become your own person? Same thing about romance, now days romance is dead. People are not a bit loyal anymore and they dont even care. Ive seen boys calling their girlfriends 'bitches' which is gross, in the only days most people werent so subhuman-like. 

Its so hard to explain but im sure at least one person will get the point im trying to make here.