Men r dumb

Why are boys so stupid??? not all of you but oml. me and my ex broke up 2 months ago and he already has a new gf. like PARDON? that FAST? so I decided to not wait around and started talking to someone. We had sleep overs and stuff but we never went on a one on one date. I really like him too we have been friends for a few months but I just started to notice him in the romantic way. but then he tells me he wants to be exclusive friends with benefits. which is fine ig...BUT WHY NOT ASK ME TO BE UR GF??? :((( and it seems like almost every guy I become friends with just wanna... yk. which is so dumb like I want to be treated like a princess not like my last relationship. My ex didn't put alot of effort into the relationship lemme give u a break down. I had to Beg for flowers, for dates, for a prom-posal, his mom has a weird "I'm in love with my son" thing and barely let us hang and he didn't do anything about it, she literarily made him cancel on me for valentines day and I got u tickets to a concert 5 month prior. 5 MONTHS AND SHE SAID YES ALL THAT TIME BUT THE NIGHT OF THE CONCERT SHE SAYS NO. She also cried when he came to see me after 1 month 0 contact (he was a Boy Scout so he was on a trip with no wifi) instead of watch her blow her birthday candles. Oh my ex also didn't do anything for our 1 year anniversary (we were together for a year and a half) like no date or gifts. When we did go on dinner dates I had to pay my half or pay him back...like what. and he barely posted me on socials which isn't super important but I like feel special. why is it so hard to find the perfect guy ugh. Oh well I guess I just gotta keep hoping. 

xoxo