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Why are boys so stupid??? not all of you but oml. me and my ex broke up 2 months ago and he already has a new gf. like PARDON? that FAST? so I decided to not wait around and started talking to someone. We had sleep overs and stuff but we never went on a one on one date. I really like him too we have been friends for a few months but I just started to notice him in the romantic way. but then he tells me he wants to be exclusive friends with benefits. which is fine ig...BUT WHY NOT ASK ME TO BE UR GF??? :((( and it seems like almost every guy I become friends with just wanna... yk. which is so dumb like I want to be treated like a princess not like my last relationship. My ex didn't put alot of effort into the relationship lemme give u a break down. I had to Beg for flowers, for dates, for a prom-posal, his mom has a weird "I'm in love with my son" thing and barely let us hang and he didn't do anything about it, she literarily made him cancel on me for valentines day and I got u tickets to a concert 5 month prior. 5 MONTHS AND SHE SAID YES ALL THAT TIME BUT THE NIGHT OF THE CONCERT SHE SAYS NO. She also cried when he came to see me after 1 month 0 contact (he was a Boy Scout so he was on a trip with no wifi) instead of watch her blow her birthday candles. Oh my ex also didn't do anything for our 1 year anniversary (we were together for a year and a half) like no date or gifts. When we did go on dinner dates I had to pay my half or pay him back...like what. and he barely posted me on socials which isn't super important but I like feel special. why is it so hard to find the perfect guy ugh. Oh well I guess I just gotta keep hoping.
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Kel
K what's his address I'll nuke his house for you
indykidz
ew ew and EW PLEASEEEE GET AWAY FROM THESE RED FLAGS
C3mentary_L4dy
Girl, if you have to beg for even the slightest, run away fast! Men and boys are both one simple mindset and that is a having a one single braincell to be stupid asf and fuck with other girls for no reason other than their entertainment and self esteem.
xX.emoGURLL.Xx
trust me girl i went through the same exact thing, TWICE. the first time it only lasted abt 7 months (we literally broke up on our 7 months) and the second only lasted a month and a half bc he was exactly like ur ex, did nothing special and was a terrible boyfriend, so i broke up w him. and the first ex i mentioned also didnt do jack shit and he had MAJOR mommy and daddy issues which ig wasnt his fault bc he went through a lot but sometimes he would take it out on me by making up random shit to argue abt and it was honestly annoying and toxic + he was like weirdly overprotective so i got tf outta there. after the both of them, i moved on and started talking to someone else, bc of the same reasons as u, and he was also my friend for a couple years and we used to like each other but nothing happened, when we both got out of our relationships we started talking and i was excited to be hanging w him but then he decided to do the same thing ur dealing w. "friends w benefits" i literally wanted to vomit but i was so tired i just accepted it, DONT DO THAT. its almost been a year and im doing so much better now, sure me n the guy who wanted to be "friends w benefits" are still friends.. just without the benefits, but trust me girl u gotta get out of there and find urself again, being alone may sound bad but sometimes a break from everything is what u need to get back up on ur feet. i believe in u girl stay strong, luv u
⋆˚࿔ elle 𝜗𝜚˚⋆
I'm sorry that you had to go through all that girl. He and his mom can eat butt honestly. Focus on yourself and you'll find the right person when it comes to you, unlike your ex who's rushing to find whoever's open. Have patience. Pick a man who's willing to put you first, someone who can be patient, stand up for you and defend you!! There are men out there who still exist it all just takes time :')
pradababy
just go gay girl
LMFAO
by aang; ; Report
crow
this reads like a highschool relationship. pls. there will be other people, and other people will do the same shit of gettign with someone asap after a breakup. ur still young. stop focusing on what he's doing and focus on you.
lol so true!!!
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izzyyyy
hear me out...... find a normal person to date
izzyyyy
hear me out...... find a normal person to date
Xx_sk¡3spunK_xX
I'm really sorry about that, but honestly, he's not the one for you, and that's a good thing. Like, he didn’t even try in your relationship, and all that stuff with his mom was just... weird. I'm so glad you're out of that situation.
But babe, I gotta say, I don’t think this "friend" of yours is good for you either. He doesn’t want a relationship with you but also doesn’t want you to move on—like, what?? That’s so selfish, honestly. You deserve to be treated like a queen, don’t settle for anything less! Good luck, love!
angry bosnian dude
Honestly so real,im currently with someone who doesn’t even gaf for sake of “releatiship “.Im so close to break up again with them and become lesbian,but even then I’ll never be able to find a girl who actually loves me and wants to do romantic things,not just to clap my cheeks
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jemi
ummmmmmmmmmm.................. T_T
hes allowed to move on ........
this is true but she’s also allowed to feel hurt since it was so fast, it kinda makes u feel like u and the relationship meant nothing to them
by azaraius; ; Report
⭒☆⭒Haseena⭒☆⭒
I would stay single until I find the perfect one, or at least someone close to perfect. And girl, never split the bill—he took you out on a date, so he has to pay for it. If he doesn’t, go out with your friends instead, or just stay home. There’s no need to go out with a low-standard man who can’t even pay for you. That’s where you’re going wrong. Trust me, men don’t care if a girl pays for date or not, or if she buys him gifts. Men will love you as long as they truly love you or as long as you make them feel like they’re chasing after you.
✮⋆˙ Greyson/Bowie ✮⋆˙
Most of us are just built different haha, most guys usually don’t really care for flowers and dates if they can just hang out and don’t really know why or if you even would want that
it could just be that that guy didn’t want to put any effort into it at all or maybe he just didn’t understand those things can be important to you
For me its like i’ll give flowers to the person i’m with or go on dates if i know they enjoy that but its not like i’ll randomly give them because me personally, i’m just as great off regularly hanging out instead of going on dates and doing couple things
this is a good perspective from a guy that i didn't think about but as a girl, lemme tell you that random acts of kindness mean a lot to many girls bc actions speak louder than words sometimes yk. ofc you're not obligated but it really does make a difference :)
by aang; ; Report
oh alright, most guys just think too practical ‘bout it but i’ll try my best if i ever manage to get a girlfriend or anything
by ✮⋆˙ Greyson/Bowie ✮⋆˙; ; Report
𝒲𝐸𝐼𝑅𝒟𝒪
I don't trust anyone who doesn't treat their girlfriend well, if they don't even treat the person they should love most in the world well, imagine the others?
-- You got rid of that guy, you're lucky! Don't rush to get with anyone, take care of yourself :) --
⛧ ZXLLYMXNXYMVNX
These things make me wish i wasn't gay bro i wish i was like a fucking mitochondria that reproduces via mitosis type shit . so many men are genuinely like not tapped into the info n shit its so wierd
san
AWH IM SORRY :( they generally suck, they don't deserve you. i hope you find someone better <3
March
tbf i know women who break up w men and have a boyfriend the next day. orrrr are still in a relationship while already committing to the next guy. orrrr they get into a relationship with a new man and cheat on them that evening.
thats not really relevant to this situation tho
by Gelink4; ; Report
Kaznik
Men make me want 2 be a lesbian
The worst part is that I'm really into losers, so they're mostly incels...
by Kaznik; ; Report
sigh me too :( the losers are always the cute ones but always don't put effort cuz they think being in the relationship is enough effort
by Pixie Gurl; ; Report
mitzi
yuck im so sorry about ur ex, he sounds super selfish and gross. also what is up with men and wanting to be in exclusive situationships??? like the only difference between that and actually being in a relationship is the title?? do men have a problem with calling their girls their girlfriend?? so so so strange queen, you deserve waaaayyy better, have an amazing day xx
ily <3
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