i dont know if i should get excited

you'll see, theres this metalhead at my friendgroup of my uni. as you could read in my bio, i aim for people who doesnt consider me just edgy by what i am and like, and thats the case with him, i think. you can expect certain traits and likes from someone whos in a metal group and looks like him but not from me, at least irl. the point is that i ache for someone who wont judge me for the gory and kind of fetishists things that i like, which things he kinda already knows, and i dont know if i should be very attached to him just because of that and i dont want to go too far and scare him either. i dont know what to do. i just want to share