why is everyone my age like this

i wanna make friends around my age (hell that's why i joined this site), mostly because the only people i talk to are my brother and some mutuals on a semi-active discord server & because some people mock me for not having any friends, but it seems like everytime i try to make some and look at the "cool new people" section, they

1. have a completely empty profile and bio so now i have to play the guessing game over whether or not they'll spurge out on me when they find out about my niche interests or my stances on touchy subjects
2. have "neopronouns" (are he and she not good enough for you, dummy????)
   
3. use they/them pronouns (which is retarded because they aren't several people, they're just one guy)
4. are ridiculously autistic and/or neurodivergent (they aren't the ones who can function with it either, they're total spazzes)(their profile is usually a dead giveaway of this with eyebleeding bright colors and their shit taste in content like TOH, steven universe and sjw DEI slop in general)
5. are queer (they brag about their sexuality 24/7 and are unfunny as fuck, i want nothing to do with them)
6. are "non-binary" (just because you don't "identify" or confirm to a gender doesn't mean you aren't that gender anymore, since when has that been the case)
7. are trans (they were groomed into thinking that cutting off your genitals and taking drugs to become a crude mockery of what they are not is a-okay. it's not)(talking them out of it is impossible)(there are so many "transgender teens" (victims) that it's pissing me off like how do they keep getting away with this?? cut it out)

you might look at my profile and go "oh i'm just going through my ""edgy phase"" where i hate people for no reason" but no, i'm not, i have my reasons. that whole "me going through an edgy phase" is used by virtue-signaling creeps who want to infantilize me and gaslight me into believing i'm in the wrong anyways

and no i can't make real friends irl, i'm homeschooled (the public education system is getting worse and worse with every passing second [link] [link]), i don't visit locations by myself, and nobody goes up to some random person to strike up a conversation to become friends (i have not seen that once) cause that's kinda weird

that said, is there any one who doesn't do the stuff i've listed above???