Intro & Safe Space

Hey I just wanted to create this blog post for a few things:

First: I'm a returning 2021 SpaceHey user. Little bit different this time around. I remember when I first created an account, I was very much a people pleaser and at one point I feel like I wasn't even being my authentic self. I wanted the most friends and would comment on everyone's profile. This is now just a fun side thing for me to express myself and connect with others. If it turns into a toxic environment I will have no problem deleting this lol

Second: I am an ally in many communities, big into non-profits and charities. I believe in supporting others, empowering females, anti bullying, or simply supporting smaller artists. I think life is beautiful; love all music, art and cultures. I believe in never judging others especially on a surface level, we are all equal. I will always stand up for what I believe in and call out things that are wrong. I will never be a bystander. I want to leave a positive impact on the world and make others feel good about themselves so they can also grow and spread kindness. If anyone is struggling feel free to reach out I want this to be a safe space.

(However due to a specific experience I believe in boundaries. I take mental health very seriously and believe in protecting my peace. I am a mom, a wife, a daughter, a pet owner, and a full time worker. Also I get this question a lot: no, I am not religious.)

Just remember this is a Para social experience. I understand being online is an escapism for many. But don't forget to live in the present moment, we only get one life to live and it's short. Please take care of yourself, spread love, and be kind<3

*Also side thing for the girlies or underaged kids on here:*

(I will accept friend request from everyone, I will not be talking to minors. I am almost out of my 20's, nothing personal.)

Please be smart. I don't mean that in a condescending way. I just remember being 16 on myspace thinking it was so cool to talk with older men and receiving their attention. It's not. It's gross their are so many predators and gross people online. Please be aware and use your best judgment. Never give out your personal information. Use that block/report button if a creep is being inappropriate. Always tell a trusted adult if you feel uncomfortable. 

-Sorry for all the heavy content, I swear I am not always this serious.

                      - Smooches! xoxo <3