RRR | Pt. 10 - Never Lose Faith (Reo's Random Rants)

There will be moments in a relationship where you feel as if the problem is unsolvable and there's no way to fix things, but that doesn't always have to be the case. Most people just get angry at their partner and never give them the chance to explain themselves, instead you cloud yourself in your own assumptions. But if you took the time to sit down and listen to your partner and hear their side of the story, you'd be surprised with how much of a difference it makes.

If you're feeling upset about something that your partner said or did, you should speak up about it and tell them how you feel. Hiding your feelings from your partner and giving them a hard time is only going to make things difficult. It's okay to be upset, but pushing your partner away and neglecting them without giving them a chance to explain their side of the story, you'd just be judging off of the first few words. Mocking or shaming your partner about their mistakes isn't going to help the situation, bringing it up in future arguments won't help either, you're only antagonizing them and adding more fuel to the flame. But no matter how bad it may seem, you should never give up hope on your partner. If they are willing to make up for it and change their ways, and you are willing to forgive, you might just be able to fix it.

The most important things in a relationship is communication and understandment, because without understanding, there would be no point in communicating. This isn't like my 5th rant, this is for the partners who are willing to change, the one's who realize their mistakes and are willing to do anything to keep you happy. We're all human, we all make mistakes, you should never let their mistakes ruining things forever. I guess the point I'm trying to make here is, it doesn't hurt to hear them out and forgive, don't stay clouded in your judgement, listen and talk about it.