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so I think I need some advice..I've been dating this guy for 5 months now, and we've known each other for awhile even before that..but yesterday he mentioned how he felt like he was losing feelings for me because we don't interact a lot irl, and yes that's totally understandable..but the problem was, after that, it really really got me sad and I was overthinking a lot. It kinda felt like we broke up without him saying it to my face. keywords like: 'my love is strong to you but i feel like it's decreasing,' 'fading away from each other', 'forced conversations', etc. the problem is..i don't think he loves me anymore. I tried texting him an 'I love you' and yes he says it back, but it didn't feel genuine. I feel lost and confused. He's unfriended and I think blocked me on one app, but that's all. we haven't talked since, and I'm afraid I'll lose him..
need advice..
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Time_Keeper
Clear communication is the most important part of maintaining a relationship.
Sounds like you should have a talk about how you are feeling.
Don't just stick around if you aren't appreciated. Honestly, this doesn't sound too bad. Nothing you two can't work through.
noted; ill try my best talking to him <:–)
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Guilherme
I went through a similar situation a few months ago, I don't know if it's the same case (probably not) but I'll still try to advise you on what I did/would have done in that situation
I don't think you should break up (at least, not now), but you shouldn't stop telling each other how you feel about the relationship either. When something similar happened to me, I just said that we needed some time to understand what we were feeling, thinking and talking about together and, above all, giving ourselves time to think about ourselves.
Try calling them to talk about this feeling, what it feels like, where they believe this feeling came from, when they started to feel this way...
In general, pls talk about it with your partner and give some time to think about it
(sorry for my bad english btw :u)
ty for the advice :–) ill try it out..
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