I am trans.

I know I don’t fit stereotype of what a trans person is or what a trans person “should” look like but I am trans. Yes, I am cis passing in the sense of people reading me as a cis girl (bc I’m really feminine but in an alternative way) but I am not cis. I am trans.

Yes, I have little gender dysphoria and I don’t want top or bottom surgery, but I am not cis. I am trans. (Plus I do bind on days where I want a fatter looking chest so)

Yes, I use she/her pronouns and I love it when people use feminine terms for me, but I am not cis. I am trans.

What makes me trans is the fact that I don’t like being seen as a girl and the thought of me being a women makes me uncomfortable. Yes I love feminine terms but I don’t like it when people call me a girl. (But if it’s in this context where it’s not really in a gender way and more of a feminine way like this for example: “now girl…” or something like that then that is fine. I feel really anxious about my chest if it isn’t flat sometimes so I bind. I fantasize about me wearing boxers (this isn’t always a trans thing but for me it is) 

I just want to put this out there bc of so long I was scared to call myself a trans person openly because I thought I was hurting trans people by doing so since I don’t fit the stereotype. But as I’ve gotten a little older (and wiser lol) I realized that I wasn’t hurting the trans community just by existing and that I’m perfect just the way I am. Anyways, peace out!✌🏽