i used to think this but now i have loads of friends and aquaintances. u just make sure u are nice and dont worry about anything u say, because thatll make u feel awkard and dumb (which u never are, but anxiety likes to make us feel the worst of ourselves), and just be chatty. talk to people randomly. say u like their shirt. join extra curriculars. do crazy things. dont even be a socialite. just be
thanks for the advice! i think definitely a key part of why I don’t make friends easily is because of social anxiety and what not, so I’ll really be taking this advice into mind C:
ofccc ofccc and yeahhh social anxiety is so rough, i used to have so much social anxiety and i still have a fair bit of it, but overalll for me my social anxiety was really just hyper awareness of what i would say, how i said it and my actions with it. when i started to care less and become less aware, i became a lot more confident. obviously think twice always, but no more than twice. im probably just repeating the same thing i said before hahaha i have a habit of that but im reallyyyy glad my comment helped!! u have the best day
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mitzi
ALSO addition lol ill be ur friend!!
mitzi
i used to think this but now i have loads of friends and aquaintances. u just make sure u are nice and dont worry about anything u say, because thatll make u feel awkard and dumb (which u never are, but anxiety likes to make us feel the worst of ourselves), and just be chatty. talk to people randomly. say u like their shirt. join extra curriculars. do crazy things. dont even be a socialite. just be
thanks for the advice! i think definitely a key part of why I don’t make friends easily is because of social anxiety and what not, so I’ll really be taking this advice into mind C:
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ofccc ofccc and yeahhh social anxiety is so rough, i used to have so much social anxiety and i still have a fair bit of it, but overalll for me my social anxiety was really just hyper awareness of what i would say, how i said it and my actions with it. when i started to care less and become less aware, i became a lot more confident. obviously think twice always, but no more than twice. im probably just repeating the same thing i said before hahaha i have a habit of that but im reallyyyy glad my comment helped!! u have the best day
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petewentz6900
this is so real but I find it easier to make online friends than friends irl
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I think personally for me it’s just hard to start a conversation with someone idk
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