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Coming out as trans... looks difficult, how do?
Yo so I'm like trans and stuff (girl) and my sister and my parents know (but I think my dad has blocked that memory so I can't be 100% on him, not like he approves either) but no one else knows I think. Yeah, uhh, how do I go about this? Do I just waltz into class one day and be like "yo so like call me Emma now and use femenine pronouns"? I don't really know anyone on a deeper level atm, school just started and everyone's new because I changed schools to specialise in computer science (weird EU thing dw about it). Oh yeah and I'm in Europe if that helps, or not, idk. I just kinda need guidance because I think being too direct has a risc of alienating me and I kinda don't want that cus I'm gonna have to work profesionally with these people later on (weird EU thing, again). Oh great wise wizzes of spacehey, alloweth thy soul to guide mine in this path of woes.
Post Scriptum: I don't really look like a guy, I pass and I'm nowhere near getting hrt atm, I've also got a pretty decent girl voice I could use at any moment so it wouldn't be exceptionally weird to the people... Like I said, when I go girl mode I pass I just don't know if the people at the school would be ok with it. Also if my name changes and teachers call me by my old name because they have to remember a lot of names already I'll feel very bad (already happens when my mom calls me by my dying name out in public). Oh also I just remembered there's a trans teacher in the school but I don't have her in my schedule she's for a class one year over mine.
Post Scriptum: I don't really look like a guy, I pass and I'm nowhere near getting hrt atm, I've also got a pretty decent girl voice I could use at any moment so it wouldn't be exceptionally weird to the people... Like I said, when I go girl mode I pass I just don't know if the people at the school would be ok with it. Also if my name changes and teachers call me by my old name because they have to remember a lot of names already I'll feel very bad (already happens when my mom calls me by my dying name out in public). Oh also I just remembered there's a trans teacher in the school but I don't have her in my schedule she's for a class one year over mine.
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bucketfullof
deffo try reaching out to that teacher i feel like they could help you w that issue regardless of you having them in a class or not
even better if you have a friend that has that teacher in class
by bucketfullof; ; Report
I'll see if I can catch her between classes! Unfortunately I geuninely do not know ANYONE in this school which is kinda crazy given it's kinda close to my old one...
by Leichpfand; ; Report
BIG MONEY SANCHEZ$
you could also just let them figure it out themselves
how?
by Leichpfand; ; Report
idk, maybe dress up as a girl or something, and let them ask the questions
by BIG MONEY SANCHEZ$; ; Report
Wouldn't that be a bit too bold?? I don't want to alienate myself and they don't know me yet so for them it'd be more worth it to just forget about me other than interact while ignoring the fact I'm weird...
by Leichpfand; ; Report
Wouldn’t telling your school that you’re trans practically have a very similiar, if not the same, result?
by BIG MONEY SANCHEZ$; ; Report
Acutally, true... I'll think about that. Thanks!
by Leichpfand; ; Report
Np
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