RRR | Pt. 5 - Don't Save Her (Reo's Random Rants)

I've met alot of people in my life, good or bad, but I've also ran into some people who were genuinely hurt and misguided. Some I tried to help, and some I didn't. But there was this person in particular that I met. As I started to know them for a while, I noticed many flaws in them, and all I wanted to do was help. I gave them multiple chances, so much of my love and trust. I became the outlet of their anger, just letting them yell at me as much as they wanted until they felt better. I let myself get hurt over and over, as long as it meant that they were gonna change, but they never changed.

They never dedicated themselves to really making a difference, no matter the chances or opportunities I gave them, they never changed. I'd spend hours apon hours talking to this person, just to see a smile on their face. And in every argument I'd apologize, even when I didn't do anything wrong. I enabled all of her decisions, good and bad. And I lost a lot of friends because of this person, but you know what? I still stayed, because I still believed they could change. After wasting a year with this person, I finally opened my eyes. The reason that they wouldn't change, is because they didn't want to. This person was my ex. I guess the point I'm trying to make here is, don't try to save the people who never asked to be saved.