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why do some men suck at communicating whats wrong like im "friends" with this guy for example, he's been starting to act like a cunt towards one of my good friends literally blaming all of his problems on her
the guy literally told her he was bleeding n stupid shit like bro idfk why, hes been acting strange with her, going on to literally make such racist comments to this guy shes talking to (whos indian) - then tries to put the blame onto the poor dude
hes also made some comments about his customers who are south asian and apparently to him they smell (hes a manager at a supermarket) even tho ive been told he literally doesnt shower after his shift
then the motherfucker left the server we all speak on, i think it was because he didnt like being told that the minecraft server we all played on was having problems with the lag, even though i kept telling this annoying fucker that the lag is getting so bad e.g. movement delay with the character, delay with food being eaten, breaking blocks and having issues connecting to the server. he decides to completely SHUT ME DOWN by telling me it must be a me problem because my laptop is known to have lag even the lag isnt as bad as the lag on the fucking server
no fucking shit sherlock it must definitely be ME!!!!!!!!Â
one of my good friends (love her) told me she was having the same issues along with another friend of ours since our friend's ping was crazy high, his little comment made me think i was tweaking because holy fuck i wanted to punch him so bad
but then the male cunt decided to have a go at our mutual friend for telling him the server had issues being like "dont play on the server then" or " the server is for people who wanna have fun, its gonna have issues" the embarrassment i felt like SIT DOWNNNN i could say a whole lot of shit if i wanted to and when the time is right
moral of the story: dont use ur mental health as an excuse to treat your friends like shit and then expect them to have symphony for you
p.s. i think hes lowkey transphobic as well since he doesnt respect my pronouns even though i came out to him and made a joke being like "their parents failed them" after finding out some person was gay and like non binary idk i barely speak to him since the guy is just annoying in general
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m0rty
i don't know this guy, he could really just be an asshole, but i think there's a chance they could be more to it.
lots of men get their bigotry and hostility from their parents and social media. he could be seeing things on social media about how "men should be" and pushing down how he really feels, and externalizing the sadness and anger over how he feels he can't be himself as hostility. and as for bigotry, its hard to see the other side when it's so much easier to punch down and feel like you're right. i could be wrong, he could just be an asshole, or he could be someone who is genuinely hurting and needs someone to show him kindness even when he puts of a hard exterior. again x3, i don't actually know him, but i don't like to assume the worst in people.
i think i forgot to mention this but whenever we do try to ask him whats up, he doesn't actually try to tell us but instead just blames it on someone else, it's hard to care for someone who is clearly hurting as you said
Like my friend does truly care about him but the last time, he basically blew up at my friend about the guy she was speaking to & another time told my other friend he didnt care about what he said abt the bigotry comments he made
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ok yeah he sounds like a dick
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its like actually jarring, never meet mfers on discord
whats even worse he's sounding like the person who backstabbed both me and my friend over a situation that didnt even involve us LOLLLL
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