My friend is in a rough relationship and taking me with her??

So, context. My friend (Ana) is from Hawaii and moved to the US to be with her boyfriend who I will just be calling Kai. I've moved to the US recently and is currently going through immigration to be with my boyfriend as well, now husband. 

Ana has had a pretty weird relationship with Kai. Kai's family hates Ana and is constantly boy-momming Kai around and whispering little things to hate Ana for whatever reason. I'm honestly not sure what's going on, but Ana is constantly calling or texting me about whether or not she should leave him (yes, she should. No one should treat you like that??)

I've been having a really tough time adapting to the US cause I'm just missing my family and stuff. Just my state alone is twice as big as my entire homecountry, so everything here can be a bit big, divided and scary-feeling. Ana and I have been talking about this a lot and she's said similar things as she, too, comes from a smaller island.

Ana called me yesterday and was freaking out again. I was in the middle of playing Monopoly with my husband and his family when she called and I was worried, so I picked up the call and went to our room to talk. An hour and 30 minutes pass and I just feel so depressed. 

Ana was talking about my relationship too and kind of talking about whether or not I was really in love with my husband, or if it was just my daddy issues that were making me cling to my "toxic man" and that I should break up with him and keep exploring cause I'm still young and if I was really truly happy where I was etc.

Like I mentioned, I've had a very tough time adapting here. I'm only here cause I want to be with my husband, otherwise, I would've never moved to the states. Neither my husband and I are perfect people, obviously, cause perfect people don't exist. He's very caring though and is really doing everything to make me feel welcome and safe here, especially cause I fully rely on him for everything as, while I'm still being processed, I can't really do anything to look after myself. 

The way she was wording everything though was so scary. She genuinely made me feel like maybe I did make the wrong decision, maybe I was being manipulated and taken advantage of, maybe I didn't actually want to be here and, all in all, I should just move in with Ana and she would look after me or I should go back to my own country to do something there instead and find someone else. 

I GENUINELY do not understand why she decided to say these things?? I love my husband with all my heart and, yes, I'm only here for him. Cause I love him, obviously. He loves me too, obviously. Everything is perfectly normal, but I've just been in a mentally not so good place due to being so far away from everything I know that I guess I was just vulnerable enough for it to get too me. I know myself and I know what I want, and going back is not what I want. I honestly am just so disgusted cause she seems so nice, but what she pulled yesterday scared me. I don't want to be her friend anymore, but I don't know what to do. She's the only friend I've made outside of my husband's circle. Gosh, all of this is just terrifying.

If you guys have any suggestions or thoughts on all of this, I would genuinely love to hear it. This is just so fucked up.