Stop confessing your feelings.

I'm serious. Stop confessing your feelings, it's not something you should do unless you're sure the other person feels the same way too. No matter how shy the other person is, somehow or another they are going to give you clear signals that they like you. You must learn to read between the lines, even if the signals are confusing, but don't confess if YOU aren't sure.


Learn to value friendships as well. Write about how you feel and reread every day if it's worth throwing away a beautiful friendship for confessing without having a clear idea of how that's going to turn out. Remember every word that person has said to you so far, the conversations about their views on love and draw your own conclusions. Even if they love you back, it doesn't mean that it will work out or that they are ready for a relationship.


Please consider all the variables before making a drastic decision. It's better to keep a good friendship close than to ruin it on the whim of wanting to kiss their lips. It's not worth it, I assure you.


Take care of yourself first, protect your heart and what you feel. Remember that even if it goes wrong, nothing a little crying will solve it and move on. Time is the only thing that does not stop, try to go at the same pace and enjoy every stage of life.


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