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sooo i got in major trouble with my family...

my mom found my secret phone and my instagram account with text messages between me and my boyfriend....

she took EVERYTHING out of my room and re-arranged literally everything for no reason just to get me even more upset. ofc she found out i lied about not being transgender anymore aswell, and that made everything so much worse.

my grandma and my mom went on to yell at me saying im delusional and im lying to myself about who i really am and all that bullshit.. i just sobbed bro i mean im so fucking tired of defending myself.

 all my clothes are gone too.

my grandma made me stay at my great grandmas condo for 4 days.. it was GROSS there was stuff everywhere but i used that time to clean instead of crying all day. (i mean.. i also cried..) and i didnt speak for 2 days because i was so depressed at the thought of never speaking to my boyfriend again.... especially since we promised ourselves like a week before.

after that my dad let me stay with him for a couple days, which i was hesitant about since hes always the one yelling at me telling me im not good enough and i need to change myself.

it turns out hes COMPLETELY changed his ways. like he apologized for everything hes ever said to me! it felt so nice to be respected and treated like a human being. Ialmost didnt believe what was happening but it was true. he let me actually style my hair how i like it! and he actually listned to me when i confessed to him what i did and he didnt even get upset at ALL. im so relieved. thats one less family member who acts like they hate me.

he also bought me some awesome new black vans and gave me his old DC graphic tee from the 2000s!!!!!!


also apparently while i was gone my mom texted my boyfriend that i was dead??!?!?

that was crazy...


(IF UR WONDERING HOW IM BLOGGING RN ITS CUS IM ON MY MOMS LAPTOP SECRETLY)



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chimbley sweep!!

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i feel so bad for you :(((((


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hazel

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this made me shake in anger and cry i feel so bad for you im so sorry :(


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G1rl_Fa1lure (fall edition )

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Dude f your mom,,,I'm so sorry. I hope you're safe now. Things will get better I promise. There are people that love and support you :)


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Lemmingsishard

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Im sorry to hear this, I hope your situation gets better. On the bright side, you father likes you now. I just hope things get better for you since the actions of your mother are horrific and deplorable.


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N30NC0L0RZ

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thats just cruel i would never treat my children the way that ur mom did to you hope you stay safe :)


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Gas station

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Your family must be from Ohio or something.


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Idk if its the brainrot talking but I'm so confused on how i'm supposed to take this comment

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Very crazy family situation going on.

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Bri ☆

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Se escucha muy duro y horrible, aunque es muy bueno la parte de tu padre, espero que te encuentres muchísimo mejor ahora !!!


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muchas gracias eso significa mucho

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M4tt

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You got this brah that’s fuckn crazy


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Cloud

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Uhhh this is insane I rlly hope your getting better


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Null_

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as someone with a nutcase mom too, your best bet is trying to permanently stay living with your dad and do your max to cut ties with her, she gonna ignore you for a while and then try to say she's sorry and stuff but don't listen to her, my mother was a control freak and used to do that for the first few months after i started living with my dad, just stay safe (and be more sneaky, if you can, buy a smaller phone and tape it to the inside top part of a drawer)


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thats actually a good idea THANK YOUU

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milu.kritinu

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ur dad sounds so nice!! u should consider living with ur dad 24/7 if thats possible sounds better than at ur moms! (btw i freaking love ur blogs i binge read them lol)


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i might be considering it yea!
+ thank you so much OMGG!!! ><

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B4RR3TT / R3D

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just learned who you are and only read this blog but you should seriously consider staying with your dad.. if you're old enough you could go for full custody? your moms side seems to already hate you anyways so they might be more lenient in just letting you stay with your dad.

also your mom is a control freak who needs serious help. good luck to you, hope you get out of this shitty situation.


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Insomniac ˘⁠ ⁠o⁠ ⁠˘⁠ 

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respectfully but your mom sounds like a control freak


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yeah for sure

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confusedSammy

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youre dad changing his ways and apogizing is actually so sweet, ik ive alreayd talked to you abt this many times but im here if you need me and you dont deserve to go thorugh any of this. but ik you can hang on a bit longer and you'll be free and we'll be able to be silly little goobers :3 !! im here for you and you can never get rid of me, stuck with me forever yippee


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Xx Ollie xX

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Hey I'm so sorry about all this I hope you can work something out and stay with your father and if you ever need to run away I can help, stay safe


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crimson

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im glad somethings working out for you 🫂


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Claraa_owo

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omg i hope everything works out for you in the end ToT stay safe and stronggg i believe in youu
Also omg telling ur bf that u died IS CRAZY wthh XoX


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quinninhell

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Stay safe! Glad things somewhat worked out


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yeah me too thanks so much man :)

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