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sooo i got in major trouble with my family...

my mom found my secret phone and my instagram account with text messages between me and my boyfriend....

she took EVERYTHING out of my room and re-arranged literally everything for no reason just to get me even more upset. ofc she found out i lied about not being transgender anymore aswell, and that made everything so much worse.

my grandma and my mom went on to yell at me saying im delusional and im lying to myself about who i really am and all that bullshit.. i just sobbed bro i mean im so fucking tired of defending myself.

 all my clothes are gone too.

my grandma made me stay at my great grandmas condo for 4 days.. it was GROSS there was stuff everywhere but i used that time to clean instead of crying all day. (i mean.. i also cried..) and i didnt speak for 2 days because i was so depressed at the thought of never speaking to my boyfriend again.... especially since we promised ourselves like a week before.

after that my dad let me stay with him for a couple days, which i was hesitant about since hes always the one yelling at me telling me im not good enough and i need to change myself.

it turns out hes COMPLETELY changed his ways. like he apologized for everything hes ever said to me! it felt so nice to be respected and treated like a human being. Ialmost didnt believe what was happening but it was true. he let me actually style my hair how i like it! and he actually listned to me when i confessed to him what i did and he didnt even get upset at ALL. im so relieved. thats one less family member who acts like they hate me.

he also bought me some awesome new black vans and gave me his old DC graphic tee from the 2000s!!!!!!


also apparently while i was gone my mom texted my boyfriend that i was dead??!?!?

that was crazy...


(IF UR WONDERING HOW IM BLOGGING RN ITS CUS IM ON MY MOMS LAPTOP SECRETLY)



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abugii

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Espero que você esteja bem💗💗


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muito obrigado ♡
(i used google translate for this one LOL)

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OMG hope ur okay !!!


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࣪ ִֶָ☾.orion

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I HOPE YOU GET BACK IN CONTACT WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND!!


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i am!! thank you sm

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HORRAY!!!!!

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nullfrequency

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What the hell that's awful
Hoping for the best 4 u dude


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alex 🐾

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i’m someone who has gone through all of this sort of thing, minus having at least one supportive relative. i know what it’s like, and i just wanna say i’m sorry that it happened to begin with. look after yourself and treat yourself :) i’m glad your father’s letting you dress and be yourself around him if i read it right!!! :D


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Tibe

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let me at those sorry excuses for a mom and grandma, i wanna fuck em up so bad
anyway it's good your dad finally came around, and it's great you have some more support now :)


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XxpiercedprincessxX

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Glad there's at least one person you can trust :3
Were you able to tell your bf what happened?


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yea i told him a while ago :(

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Not to get to personal, but how did it go?

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Silly_<3

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That is not FUCKING ok. I hate that people in my community having to go through this. I hope you’re doing better.


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Sawaoskyale

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Que padre que al menos tengas a alguien que te apoye :)


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si gracias :(

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BONELESSBAT^-^

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im glad your on good terms with ur dad atleast :D


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VultureCulture

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Oh my god that's horrible , I hope your able to get out of this whole situation soon


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chimbley sweep!!

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i feel so bad for you :(((((


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hazel

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this made me shake in anger and cry i feel so bad for you im so sorry :(


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G1rl_Fa1lure

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Dude f your mom,,,I'm so sorry. I hope you're safe now. Things will get better I promise. There are people that love and support you :)


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Lemmingsishard

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Im sorry to hear this, I hope your situation gets better. On the bright side, you father likes you now. I just hope things get better for you since the actions of your mother are horrific and deplorable.


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thats just cruel i would never treat my children the way that ur mom did to you hope you stay safe :)


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Bri ☆

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Se escucha muy duro y horrible, aunque es muy bueno la parte de tu padre, espero que te encuentres muchísimo mejor ahora !!!


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muchas gracias eso significa mucho

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scarabbug

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You got this brah that’s fuckn crazy


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Cloud

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Uhhh this is insane I rlly hope your getting better


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Null_

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as someone with a nutcase mom too, your best bet is trying to permanently stay living with your dad and do your max to cut ties with her, she gonna ignore you for a while and then try to say she's sorry and stuff but don't listen to her, my mother was a control freak and used to do that for the first few months after i started living with my dad, just stay safe (and be more sneaky, if you can, buy a smaller phone and tape it to the inside top part of a drawer)


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thats actually a good idea THANK YOUU

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