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Boyfriend 29/09/24

My boyfriend will not let me break up with him. He threatens to kill himself, tells me the blood will be on my hands. What do I do with that?

I look away when I press on his text notification, seeing his name makes my body heat up.

I feel gross when I talk to him, and I feel as if I'm keeping a secret when my mum asks about him or when he talks to my friends.

I feel trapped.

I am trapped.


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lesbian kirimi

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dated a guy just like that before. hes bluffing. hes not going to do anything. hes trying to manipulate you with the threat of death. next time he does it call in a wellness check on him. please dont wait to leave, this will only get worse. easier said than done really but I hope things turn around for you


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SeaStar⋆。°☆

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I'm so sorry that you're in that situation. Honestly, the best thing I can think to do is to just not respond to him anymore. It sounds harsh and scary but ultimately his decision is HIS decision. Most of the time people just say that to have power over you and don't actually plan to go through with. However, if you truly believe that he would then I suggest calling the police or some institute to do a wellness check on him and to screenshot all of your messages with him. After that, it would be best to just cut him off and delete his number. You would have have done your due diligence and anything after that is not your fault or concern. He is a human being just like you; you both have free will. What he does with it is not on you. You were not put on this earth just to regulate his feelings. You are here to live YOUR life.

Tldr: Call for a wellness check on him then cut him off.


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Thank you, I am terrified to leave him incase it kills him, I don’t want to destroy his life. But ultimately it is his decision not mine. I hope I can get the strength to leave, if I do leave him I’ll call for a wellness check, I didn't even know that was a thing, thank you so much

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You're welcome and I wish you all the happiness you deserve.

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