Is love unethical?

What is “love” exactly?

The matter is the subject of much debate, the nature of one’s whole self is not transparently known, is love an informed decision? It is entirely possible that no one loves you. The self you alone perceive being the only listener to your own thoughts, and the only knower of your own impulses. 

 It could be argued that you have no right to love- you, who are worse than others. Guilty of all most unpleasant forms of internal treachery. You seek to make yourself manageable, but I’m doing so, the threat of your presence is disguised. If you feel alone now, have you considered whether you might deserve it? Have you considered that others do not deserve the burden of loving you?