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I don't mean to be hostile but I get really abrasive when someone gives me nothing burger dialog 😠cannot tolerate someone asking me/talking about nothing. Overtime I'll just get more and more rude hoping they'll stop talking to me.Â
Hit it off with this guy, in my mind it's for sure we are gonna be good friends but lately he keeps texting me "hey"s frfr, I don't mind people talking to me but what I don't like is someone just texting me because they've got nothing going on. Feels very disingenuous and boring, folks who are about that life are very easy to spot. Only talking about drama or they want you to ramble about yourself constant because when the silence comes.
It's loud, they don't have anything to offer. It's not a requirement, I just think that if someone is like that or knows someone else who is socially stunted/congested that they could consider questions or topics to use in interactions so they don't end up being just like everyone else in the sea of people.
I'm sure it can be lonely being by yourself, there's no I in team. So don't be afraid to talk to yourself or practice in your head for when you meet someone that you wanna talk to, believe in yourself~☆
Anyways I'm gonna go talk to this guy now and let him know my thoughts, it helps for me to type/write out what I want to say before I dig into a conversation.
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Pot
Dude yeah.
I have a few people I know who only text me "hi" and maybe ask how I'm doing. And every time we talk it's just so fruitless. Sometimes I try to put in effort and bring up topics I think would be interesting, but they never really go anywhere. I understand their social skills aren't the best and they can't really help it. But every time I speak to them, I keep questioning if we really even are friends, since there's barely anything in common between us, and we can't even hold up a proper conversation
Idk if I'm being too harsh. But I'm growing so tired of friends who I'm barely in contact with, and when we finally do talk, it's all mush. It's about nothing. Just empty words. Now when I see a notification from any of them, I just instantly get exhausted.
I don't mind having more casual friends and friends who I only speak to every now and then. I kinda prefer it, since I'm not the most sociable of the bunch. But these meaningless conversations are killing me
by Pot; ; Report
It's sucks as well if you've really hit it off with someone just for the day to come where they don't continue a conversation, hours turns into days, days to months. By the time they get back, you've both grown as people and just don't "fit" anymore.
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Yeah that really blows man :/
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