DNI/BMF/BYI

(Do not interact/be my friend/before you interact)

DNI

(Do not interact)

1. Racist, Homophobic, Sexist, Transphobic, Ageist, Com/Proshippers, Zoophiles, people who doxx or send harassment, and anyone who supports any of those things are not allowed here. 
2. Lolicon/shotacon. That's fucking disgusting. 
3. If you are against therians / furrys or anything of that nature. (You are allowed to express yourself however you want, you are not cringe and ily<333)
4. If you are younger than 12 or older than 17. I don't want to be able to influence children, and I don't wanna talk to adults. (But if I friend you when you were 17 but then turn 18, ur fine, idc.) 
5. people who are bigoted or extremely religious. (I have nothing against religion, I love learning about different ideals and morals, I think it's really cool- but I don't like people who try to force me to be religious... and I mean ppl who shame you for not believing what they believe in) 
6. If you are a fujoshi/himejoshis, please don't interact. I hate it when bl/gl stories oversexualize the two male/female characters for no reason. represention is a good thing, but objectifying a bl/gl relationship isn't good representation. (Especially if you like Jinxs... please get away.) 
7. Cursing when talking to me is ok (as long as you are not insulting me), but I would like to not have people around me who use slurs like the f slur (for gay ppl), the r word (for disabled ppl), the t slur (for trans ppl). I don't care if you say these words by yourself, but I would not like to have these words used when talking to me or directed towards me it already happens at school (even tho I literally tell my "friends" I dont like it...), I don't wanna come home and see it too... but like, if I'm looking at your blogs or bulletins or any shit like that and I see any slurs, I'm not going to get mad at you, I'm just not going to interact with that post. 
8. If you defend serial killers or romanticize any of their actions or if you try to justify a confirmed abuser's actions on another person (thing that often happens in the TCC, but not always), don't interact with me (The legal system is already fucked up, don't talk about how a murder is "cute") 
9. Ranfrens/Alfred's playhouse fans, please STAY AWAY Idc if you "separate the art from the artist" you can't do that with Ranfrens or Alfred's playhouse. I dont know much about Ranfren, so please contact me on spacehey or discord to talk about it. I know alot abt Alfred's playhouse, don't try to argue with me abt that.
10. fandoms/things that are on thin ice: Hazbin Hotel, Helluva Boss, Homestuck, Harry Potter, Mha, the yandere simulators or whatever they are called like the Peter dude, and people who selfship- it can be a bit problematic if its with a uhm morally questionable character, but as long as its not pedophilic or weird it's ok w/ me annnd uhhh ppl who listen to music artists who have done terrible things. Specifically when you can't separate the music from the what they have done. It's literally not that hard to not listen to their music bud...
11. IF YOU HAVE TRIGGERING STUFF ON YOUR PROFILE AND DONT WARN BEFORE HAND!!!! >:[ (like fr, dont have gore on your profile... its not silly or cute- I mean like dead bodys and hanging ppl on your profile, like just a bit of fake blood is ok if you warn before hand.)

BYI

(Before you interact)

1. before you interact with me I want you to read and know about my DNI, it is very important to me and my safety and if you go against it I will block you, no hesitation.
2. I believe I'm autistic, so if I get any information incorrect or say something offensive, please inform me immediately, its really hard for me to understand social cues and I may get info about a topic incorrect, pls be nice and correct me, dont go and spread what I said/did before trying to tell me. IF I LIKE SOMETHING THING IS 100% PROBLEMATIC PLS TELL ME- and if I said something that was offensive like 4 years ago, don't bring it up. I have changed since then and I have grown.
3. Sometimes, when texting people, my "texting accent" will change, like from how I'm texting now, to emoticons and numbers and misspelled words. Please pardon me if I do this really often and if it bothers you, I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable or sad!
4. I'm an age regressor. That means that sometimes, as a coping mechanism, I will act more childish, and sometimes my texting might be affected by it, but not often because I go offline to regress usually. (If I text you while regressed, and you don't wanna talk to me while I'm in that head space, don't respond/be mean to me pls.) 
5. I like to talk about my interests. A lot. Like, a LOT a lot. I'm sorry if this ever becomes annoying. If you want me to stop, try to change the subject or just gently tell me you don't want to read my 13 page essay on Mads Mikkelsen (I also talk about how much I like fictional characters a lot, this is never in a sexual or romantic way, usually it is me appreciating the characters design, personality, and morals)
6. I don't usually talk first... so if you wanna talk, you have to talk first... sorry... uhm, but I will usually post bulletins and interact on there frequently!! So you can comment on them, I really appreciate it!! But like I'm not good with keeping up with IM...

BMF

(be my friend)

1. If you like similar things as me!! (Like music, fandoms, and characters!!! I need more ppl to talk about characters to... because I get so silly and happy when I talk about them)
2. If you can at least kind of speak/text in English (because I don't know enough of any other languages to talk in them, hopefully in the future I can!) if you are learning languages that I'm learning I'd love it if you help me <3
3. If you are a goooood listener because I'm a big yapper, and if you actually ask me questions about the topic and listen to me, AND REMEMBER WHAT I SAY AND BRING IT UP, LATER
4. If you are really cool and nice and don't make me uncomfortable!! Bro, I love it when ppl don't try to make me uncomfortable and agree w/ me on most topics <333 I just get this feeling that I'm not crazy and then I'm happy (we can still be friends if we disagree, I respect ur opinions!) :3
5. If you watch video essays, I know that's really specific, but like- I love video essays so much!!! And if I'm learning about a topic and you can explain it to me, I get so happy!!!!
6. If you make art!! I wanna eat people's art, pls show me I love it AGHHHH
7. IF YOU LIKE TGCF (Heaven Official’s Blessing) PLEASE BE MY FRIEND I LOVE TGCF!!!!!!

(@shug888 on tumblr <3)

Also, if you wanna, here is my discord so you can chat with me >_<

timtim5145

(PLS FEED MY BABYSSS!!!)