where to get cool clothes :/

i live in the uk and it is pretty much impossible to get alternative clothes / accessories / wtv . pretty much all of my wardrobe is FULL with the same old stockholm style bc i cant find anything ! ! !  on my gravestone theres gonna be : amelia : died of lack of coolness . for example ,  i tried to find a band tee and the only thing that came up on my search are those preppy nirvana crop tops . and when i search up alt clothes i get shein . SHEIN . and TEMU . FREAKIN TEMU . i prefer my clothes to not fall apart after 2 days . erm idk what else to put gang . oh uhh so i wanna dress scenemo but like any alt clothing shops i will accept atm im SO desperate for coolness . 

i tried looking on vinted ,  and i only found one thing that i liked . ( it is literally the COOLEST belt EVERRRRR ) ! ! 

so uhhhhh can yall comment shops and clothes thingy stores or erm shops and stuff . im so sorry im the most awkward dookie in the toilet 0-0 

but dont like uhm say in the comments :

amazon

shein

temu

dollskill

any other unsustainable / fast fashion brand

thanks my coolies woolies for being AWEEEEESOME and love yourself you are worth it no matter what race , gender , sexuality , religion , class , sex , etc you are ! believe in yourself bc you are the skibidi alpha of the century my dewd >:DDDDD