I am confused about my sexuality.

It’s so hard for me to figure out what is my sexuality. So if anyone knows a name for it please comment! 

1. Inexperienced and not interested in getting experience for now: I have never been in a relationship, nor have ever I kissed anyone. People my age are getting into relationships and even engaging in s3xual stuff. Although I DO NOT want to do anything like that with anyone because I am still young and Im not ready to lose my innocence. So I don’t feel a s3xual attraction to most people. 

2. Physically and emotionally attracted to men but only emotionally attracted to women: I have liked a few girls in the past but I have never been s3xually attracted to them like I am to men. But I can most definitely have emotional feelings for both genders. And I do consider myself pansexual. 

3. My past experiences have left me insecure: I feel like It’s hard for me to really trust and love someone with my past experiences. So I would say that I have trouble trusting people but I also get attached easily. 

Tysm for reading! Sorry for ranting about my love life but I need help figuring out my s3xuality. So far I know that I am at least Pansexual but I am considering being asexual due to my lack of hope of finding love. I genuinely think I’ll be alone forever. ♡


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𝒜𝓇𝒶𝓃𝒸𝒾𝒶

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Not to be mean but girl you are 13, don't worry too much about this


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Thank you for the reply, I just am having trouble ignoring it because it’s forced on kids my age to have relationships and etc. you would be surprised.

by ʙᴀʙʏᴅᴏʟʟ’ꜱ ʙʟᴏɢ 𝜗𝜚; ; Report

Dw, I just hope you'll find out who you are when the time is right, don't pressure you too much tho♡

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Not to be rude but you're 13!!! You're a CHILD, of course you don't understand what You're attracted to because you haven't lives anything yet

It's okay at your age, you shouldn't be thinking that much about your sexuality (not saying you have to be straight tho), that's something that will come to you once you're old enough

And I'm not saying you can't know what you like at a young age, you like boys or girls or both? It's okay! Maybe you don't know what you are yet, but you know what you find attractive, and that's okay

Don't rush things! I used to think i was bisexual at your age, and i believe It's because you're naive and are not sure of how love actually looks like

Feeling are confusing! As I said before, don't think too much about it, you'll find out after you have enough experiences and are grown up :P


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Also, as i said, you're young! Shouldn't even be worrying about getting into a relationship or going straight to something s3xu4l... Don't worry about those things, they'll happen later in life

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Thank you for the advice! It’s just forced on kids my age to grow up

by ʙᴀʙʏᴅᴏʟʟ’ꜱ ʙʟᴏɢ 𝜗𝜚; ; Report

Thank you for the advice! It’s just forced on kids my age to grow up

by ʙᴀʙʏᴅᴏʟʟ’ꜱ ʙʟᴏɢ 𝜗𝜚; ; Report

Don't feel forced! Live with your own rythm, don't let those things influence you too much, stay safe! <3

by El Chivo; ; Report