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I think I might be on the Aroace Spectrum

(Posted this in an lgbtq group but it got no responses so I'm making it a blog so I can actually get advice/answers) 


I'm 17 and I've never had a crush on anyone my whole life. However, I have a lot of fictional crushes, usually from anime or general cartoons, who are men, women, and everything else. I find these characters to be attractive both romantically and sexually but I don't know why real people don't do it for me in any context. I don't like the idea of kissing a real person or being physically lovey-dovey (not really a touchy person) Dating itself isn't weird but based on my circumstances, it would just be a really good friendship with a little extra and with the title "dating". Sex I'm not too repulsed about. Nsfw content is good when it's just animated fictional characters. However, the moment it's real people, I'm no longer interested. I don't show sexual attraction to real people. I would have sex it if the other person really wanted to but that's about it. I also have a pretty much non-existent libido (never really felt physically aroused and things like masturbation are things I don't crave).

Also, while I'm not romantically or sexually attracted to anyone, I can admit that people look good, especially people who aren't men (men are kinda meh to me but there are a couple of men who I think look good). If I were to date and/or have sex with any gender, it would probably be women, people under the nonbinary umbrella, or anyone who isn't a man. I'm also drawn more to wlw/nmlnm relationships in media. This confuses me because I feel that contradicts everything I said in the beginning.


TLDR: Mostly romance-replused, sex-neutral or positive. Only attracted to fictional characters, regardless of gender. I'm somewhat drawn to women and enbys. Does this mean I'm Aroace? If so, what am I?


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「 Bea๑ 」

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you could for sure fall into the spectrum! if you want to label yourself as such. there are soo many microlabels, i would suggest looking into sites that have a lot of that info. i think there is like aan lgbtqia wiki or something, or you can look for aroace spec flags on pinterest, stuff like that!


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