don't be mad but

I see people online crying about little things, I'm saying my opinion and what I think. if you are upset about something that someone didn't know or if someone changes their name day after day then you are chronically online, esp with dni lists. I am saying this as someone who's apart of the community, (LGBTQ)

like I am sorry that I didn't know you pronouns, most of the time you have to guess and still get yelled at. esp to those people who get mad when you say their dead name (saying this to the people who change their name every week!), either they change it once a week or its as their name somewhere. weren't you Sarah last week and now you are hero? I understand people are trying to find themselves, but people like that shouldn't be on the internet because it encourages this behavior, instead of not going with the crowd and sticking to who you are.

people have taken things online way too srsly, and they just roll with the crowd. when the dream sexual shit came up I lost hope in people online. seeing how chronically online people are or even can be sickens me to the stomach because I thought there would be flying cars. nope! there's people feeling a type of way to elderly people (gerontosexual). when i'm old I want to be left alone and not have people so chronically online feel a type a way to me. or even a type of way to people online like dream for example, people who felt a type of way towards him didn't even see his face "eugghh ahh his voice is soooo >///<" Jesus Christ get out of your moms basement! kids now are online and follow people like this, and encourage these things - parents are confused with their kids and don't know what to do when the problem is them being online. esp being online from a young age. 2020 was really something, some people are still like that -  I am SORRY bunny and arson that I said a joke which made you cry (it was a joke about tommyinnit being homophobic. which he was!)

and with dni lists, having a dni list won't stop anyone from friending you. "racists and homophobic ppl dni!!! -_-" okay obvi no one wants that, I'm not saying "oh yeah we should let anyone int" no, don't put words into my mouth. you can't stop them at all, one good thing that I love is the block button, use it if someone is making you uncomfortable, man.

no one will be like, "damn..she seems so cool but I'm in her dni list sigh..I'll leave her be" okay. I will say this as an example, I had a friend who is a narcissist and one persons "dni" list is on their carrd had that in it and she was super upset, she was upset but still befriended them. people aren't gonna turn the other way. you have to figure things out, you can control your decisions online make smart ones and don't expect people to make them for you because they won't. I promise you they won't. 

people don't care, esp online. if you say you are uncomfortable with something most of the time they won't stop or care how you feel - things can get worse by that, there are so many different possibilities for things to get worse. if you are uncomfortable with something then say it, and then block. you don't even have to give them an explanation because they don't deserve it, if they are making you that uncomfortable, esp if you have said this and this makes you uncomfortable.

ok well that's it. I am just saying how I feel, I don't speak for everyone - maybe some people here and there. 

if you are uncomfortable with someone then BLOCK them!!!!!!