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MY 1ST BF EVER RAHHHHH (plz don't date as quickly as I did LOL)
OKAYYY so I know it's really early into dating him considering we only started talking for 3 days but lowkey I AM SO ROMANTICALLY DEPRIVED
Again, bad romantic judgement bcuz of my lack of romance, but he's just so sweet
I've literally never felt this way abt any1 b4, and it's just so overwhelming??
So basically when I was in my electrical class he texted me asking if I wanted 2 be his gf and ofc I said yes!!
And omg the feelings I had.. my heart was literally pounding out of my chest, my face was so warm, and I couldn't help but smile and feel giddy
He makes me so happy and I can't wait 2 text him every moment I get
I really hope I'm making the right decision here and it's not just desperation or my brain playing tricks on me
I also made a Spotify playlist abt him :3
BUT YAYYYYY MY DAYS OF BEING SINGLE ARE FINALLY OVERRR
I HAVE A BOYFRIEND NOW!!!! (1st time in a romantic relationship)
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miauk17
WOW, it is actually kind of too fast but xd, anyway. I wish you the best though!! But I gotta say as the other comment did, be careful ofc and take care. Remember to see things objectivly when needed. But I can see that you are concious of..well.. that its kinda fast xd, and that you really are happy about this. So I guess thats fine. Anyway, love can sometimes be more complicated than it seems T-T (based on experience) but at the end of the day, just remember that your safeness and well being is the most important thing :)!1!
Springle
I can see that you made the same mistake as me and I'm gonna tell you some things that I wish I told myself.
please get to actually know him through other people, especially the kind that are close to him. I know that can be something you forget to do cuz you want to talk to just him, but whatever he says about himself, is biased towards himself. also do try to see past the excitement, If he really does seem like someone you wanna stay with then do it. btw when I say getting to know him through other people, I do mean his friends or whoever he wants to spend time with, chances are that he's similar to them, if you don't like them then there's not a big chance you'll like him.
Issues:
1. He added me thru a random mutual server on discord so I have absolutely no idea where 2 look 4 his friends
2. I wouldn't say he's perfect either, he apologizes quite a bit when he realizes he said something uncomfy or wrong 2 me
3. Love is different for everyone, I had a friend date some1 within 2 weeks of knowing them, etc. but I guess I am experimenting with romance rn cuz (again) I've never dated before
HOWEVER
Ur insight, experience, and advice is greatly appreciated. I am doing my best 2 try and make this work out in the safest way possible by trying 2 slow down the pace of our relationship and establishing boundaries. I will try my best 2 keep ur advice in mind while also trying 2 figure it out on my own. Again, this is my 1st love and is def the experimental phase of my love life, but that is no excuse 2 be reckless abt it. Again, thanks for ur kind and wise words <3
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