Love in High School is a lie

The other day I was finally leaving class, happy to finally go home until at the school entrance, I see a couple from here. I dont know why, but my conscience told me "how lazy, right? Imagine spending your entire life with a person from your classroom or from your school", "well, yes, but-, do you know something? Yes, how lazy. I dont mean "WHAT ARE YOU SAYING DUDE?! I SHOULD GO FROM PERSON TO PERSON OR WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU!?", no, thats not what Im referring to, I mean that for example the other time I saw a story that said "Ooh my love, I hope to be with you forever" and I think "how the hell you want to be with a person you met in high school forever? Its not like high school is the whole life, damm it, you probably said the same thing when you was in ninth grade a few years ago and probably you never seen your supposed eternal love blah bla blahh". And I have a perspective on high school relationships like "relationships in high school are for going out and doing stupid things and thats it, not for being there forever", for example I hear my parents talk about how long They have been together and i cant help to think "DAMM IT BUT HOW HAVE YOU BEEN WITH THE SAME PERSON SINCE NINTH GRADE?! DONT YOU REALIZED EVERYTHING YOU HAVE SURELY MISSED?!", then I remember that if it hadnt been like that I wouldnt have born. Well i dont know if its the romantic or horror movies(500 days of summer), but i imagine meeting someone completely unknown, a new person who, perhaps, will teach me new things and beauties of life. I finally came to the conclusion that I thought about this so much because I also wanted a girlfriend, or maybe i dont even want one and its just because everyone has couples and you feel under that pressure to have one.

How I hate the adolescence and his stupids problems.


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Nic

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Relationships may or may not last forever and that's okay. They can still have meaning and foster growth for us in the long run.

Most people we meet in life will drift apart from us.

That doesn't make them any less important to our journey and growth.

Take chances and enjoy whatever happens while it lasts. And it may not last, so we have to take care not to cling too tightly either.

I don't miss high school at all. Adolescent hormones were crazy.


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Ninaa

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Personally, I think the more you experience in life, the more you get of it, so the more people you meet in your life the more you know about people in general. But it doesn't have to be like that. Relationships can last forever but don't have to. You can stay in a relationship but meet other people too, so you wouldn't miss on anything. But It's all on you. As for the forever lasting relationships...it requires a really strong sence of bond and thing that keeps you together. And about people who Love-Talk about how they will be forever with a certain person, I don't like it. People who Love-Talk actually don't know if It's going to be like that, actually, nobody knows. So they are just talking about their feelings here, which most of the people don't actually care for...so .... that's it


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