avoidant attachment

so i kinda learnt what an avoidant attachment style is in romantic relationships and it makes so much sense bc i definitely have some friends who r like this (as well as myself sometimes??)

from my understanding its discomfort with intimacy, inconsistency, conflicting dependency and stuff like that

to the girls out there who only like it when theyre into guys (or gals) who dont like them back, it might not necessarily mean ur lithromantic, but it could be a sign u have avoidant attachment

im definitely still wrapping my head around this concept tho bc not everything u c online is very accurate, but i think its a useful explanation for why i or others may feel certain ways about things ig

correct me if i got anything wrong or if this doesnt make sense

i know these 2 people (1 being a close friend of mine) whose behaviour in relationships align with this, and they got into some really twisted circumstances, so i wish i could tell my hg about this but i also know she doesnt want me getting myself into business thats not mine

even if i do im gonna wind up disagreeing w her anyway, n id rather not fall out over smth that im not involved with anyway, i js hope they figure things out for themselves