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Guys, I’ve got 7 exes through my life. Yeah. People love my bubble personality and they love me too much, it sucks because I feel scared to break up (if I don’t feel the love no more the… the um.. the shimmy crimmy)
And so, I recently broke up with a boy. He was the best, but then after taking a break from him and then haven’t seeing him over the summer…
I felt like I didn’t like him anymore.
No more spark.
So I had to. I told him and explained…
And he said “the sad thing is I’ve seen people break up with others for no reason”
But there WAS a reason! I really didn’t feel it no more…
Am I the a.h?
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Leo
So I just looked at your blog from the other day and it connect to this. Obviously there's much more to this but I'd like to keep it simple.
To answer your question, first you need to understand that people with ADHD doesn't love/feel love the way normal people do. Basically people with ADHD experience emotions more deeply, so they seek stimulations after another. This is what you call the "spark". Now without there being anything constant and "fun" happening, naturally your brain move on to another thing to be fixated on. Untreated ADHD can lead to lack of impulse & emotional control that can cause issues with relationships in general. Anyways I'm sure there's much more other underlying issues that you can figure out more about yourself with a counselor or something alike.
Now I'm not here to badmouth people with ADHD, in fact, people with ADHD are more than capable to experience love at a much deeper levels than normal, so there's that.
Lastly I'd like to address that people with ADHD tend to attract others with similar attributes, so with that being said perhaps those people that "loves too much" may be from that group :)
Good luck!
- Leo
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seven exes is crazy so it lowkey might be u but then again its better to just be upfront so wtv
"Oh no, people love me too much.. What a burden to be so attractive, Ugh" Lol
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