Cosplay Convention Boundaries

Individualistic, spontaneous, and non-clingy

Attending a convention is a vacation to me, I'm allowed to relax, do things for myself and include others in a timely manner. Everyone is encouraged to set up their own con schedules while being flexible with timely involvement in shenanigans. I'm an individual who values personal space and freedom. You have to be okay with me walking away and doing my own thing. If there is...

overprotectiveness / patronizing / obsessing / guilting / shaming / isolating / projecting

involved for control, expect me to do what's best for me. Leaving for myself to enjoy the day. 

☆ If you involve me into your plans without my approval or knowledge. Ask for my consent before performing action.

☆ If anyone decides to isolate me away from friend/s because you do not approve of their prestige status, or be spiteful and treat them as a "joke." Good humour is not isolating or harming others, to me, it's including others into the joke... being silly / cringe within the moment.. not to laugh AT others, but to laugh WITH the friends.

☆ For those who are jealous or territorial with their person and want to slide a "don't talk to ma man" message. I'm sorry but who are you? Please go work on that crap-tastic attitude because that does not make you look cute nor approachable. Sounds like a you problem. For the record, I view most of my connections as Platonic.

Thank you for reading til the end. This is for peace of mind, whilst having fun and no one in my friend group/s get harmed while hanging out. This is to promote inclusivity and equality. If boundaries are not being respected, I will take measures into my own hands... and you will see less of me. Thank you and for those who consciously choose to ask for consent with respect, and not the idea of me, I appreciate you! ✌️ ♡

- Sincerely, your friendly fiend of a friend