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Hey guys im gonna be starting college on Sep 3rd and i was wondering if you guys could give me some tips on how to not be seen as weird/not likeable. like i want to fit in so i was wondering if you guys could give me tips o.o...
Freshmen in College!!
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xxRebellious_Emmaxx
Just be yourself, dude. So what if you're considered ''weird''? I don't think anyone is going to say anything negative about it because in college, we're all adults currently paying to continue our education and have better things to do with our lives than to bully someone or whatever.
you're so right!! im now in college and I made tons of friends for being myselfff C:
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Hyacinth
honestly, just being a genuine and kind person is the easiest way to be liked. I also recommend joining some clubs and hanging out in the library and/or student center (really anywhere where there are people socializing). If you don't want to be seen as weird by your classmates, just don't yap excessively in class. Not everything the professor says needs to be commented on/responded to. Feel free to ask questions, but don't raise your hand in the middle of the professor speaking just to try to add on to what they're saying. Sometimes it's called for, but when you do it multiple times each class just to say you agree/disagree, it can get pretty annoying for your classmates. Also, even if you're not socializing, being present in a social setting while you're doing hw or something can be kind of nice. good luck
THIS I NEEDED THIS THANK YOU, theres a huge ass library here and tons of people are there during the day but I've actually made friends in the classroom, the people I sit with, I have now tons of friends just by being myself and staying true to myself!! C: and for speaking in class unnecessarily, I don't do that AT ALL, I usually answer questions that the prof asks in class, in my head lolll I never raise my hand, but I am trying to now :D, I don't like being perceived so that's a big reason why I don't communicate or participate much in class but rather answer those questions in my head
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nemooo
most people in uni are alone, that makes them want to make friends and therefore be nice, choose wisely who to befriend and dont be afraid, people who will end up to be your friends will think you are nice and cool, just be kind and helpful and it will be alright most likely
Ive made tons of friends now just by being kind and true to myself C: I'm so glad I found people who like me for who I am!! :D
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