some1 pls explain my dads logic

(srry bad grammar cuz of my dyslexia)

so whenever my family is having spaghetti, macaroni or tortellinis i wont eat it cuz i rlly dont like them, and for some reason my dad will start an argument w me abt not wanting to eat it.

idk why but he rlly likes those foods and it pisses him off at the fact that i rlly dont like it.

so mostly when they eat that i eat just instant ramen and my dad would just call me dramatic and say that ramen is basicly thr same as the other 3 foods i just named. like 1 no its not the same, and 2 HE HATES RAMEN.

so why tf is he yelling at me for not liking the 3 food i had named  and say that ramen is just the same thing while he hates that??

(off topic part) dont get me wrong i love my family but istg some1 needs to slap some logic into my parents brains i think cuz ive heard them say the most racist and homophobic shit ever and say stuf like "i dont speak english" in our language (dutch) to ppl who cant talk our language. i dont blame any1 who cant speak or understand dutch while living in the Netherlands like its hard asf, its best if they r learning it to understand it more if they live here but if they just came here or cant afford any classes then they shouldnt be blamed.