I’ve been wondering this for a long time, but I just don’t understand. I wouldn’t call myself pretty but other people do (I can’t really trust other people tho). It just seems like every guy I like or talk to ends up just wanting my body. For example I was “dating” this guy this year. I say “dating” because we never hung out, out of therapy (YES I MET HIM IN THERAPY IM STUPID) and he was just love bombing me to get me to send ykw. Long story short he had a girlfriend the WHOLE time and he was cheating on her with me. And another situation happened after that with another guy. I always feel like the other woman. I just want a chance at a relationship, just one. But how can I be someone’s first choice?
Ty for reading my rant! Please give advice 😭
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xxRebellious_Emmaxx
I feel your pain, although I do currently have some optimism in terms of finding someone to be with now that I'm an adult (let's just say that the dating pool really opens up to you once you turn 18).
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You are totally right. I should be waiting to date. Thank you sm! :)
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SENTIENT.B
Being desirable doesn't require social skills. I never understood why it was easier to find people who wanted to do things to me than people that wanted to be my friend. But I was so lonely and naive I got taken advantage of my need for attention lots of times. I wish my younger self had more friends to keep them safe.
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Im sorry you went through that, I totally understand.
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Fag4shadow01
Real it sucks. I get cat called sometimes so i guess im "pretty" enough for that but its so bad cuz its always by people way older than me
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I really relate to that. I personally feel like our generation is doomed bc of the boys in this generation. But it's hard to date older men without being judged and its unrealistic.
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eviexx
girl same idk and because of this im actually like taking a break from rls in general like i dont wanna be with anyoneee unless its maybe someone ive been friends with or ive known for a long time and that i know for a fact i love and trust and i knowww they love and trust me yk
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Real, it’s just hard to find that in this generation
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flecktard
ROFLMAO
BUMP
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