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I lowk already know the answers to this but still i think it'd be easier to take advice hearing it from a different person. I'm just really insecure and keep thinking badly of myself and I hate it. i want to love myself but i dont know why i have such a low self image ...
how to become less insecure?
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Mephisto
Warning : probably broken English.
There's no universal answer, we're all different, but if you want some advice I would say that the big part is realising that you can be proud of what you do, of who you grew up to be. Like for example I saw the website you made (love it btw), well you can be proud of it because few people have the technical knowledge to make something like that and on that point you're better than 99% of the world population.
Everybody's jealous of someone else. Sure you may see people who look and do things better than you, but there are a lot of them who don't and are probably jealous of you too. Don't be hard on yourself and focus on all the good things that define you.
Your English is great btw. Thanks for the kind words and advice on reframing my thinking ..!! sometimes I get a little tunnel vision on myself ... this really helps. I will focus on all the good things that define me!! thank you Mephisto :)
by Kris; ; Report
Thanks ^^ ! One small thing you can do to help is carry a small notebook with you and write on it during the day when you think of something nice about yourself, of all the things you were able to do and of which you can be proud of
by Mephisto; ; Report
this is a great idea!! I am gonna start now ... btw im really glad+honored to be one of your first friends on here :D cant wait to randomly reply to whatever bulletin or blogs u post B)
by Kris; ; Report
Yeah, you're actually the very first person I talk to on Spacehey ^^'. I'm very shy and anxious, I have no idea what I'm gonna post but you're welcome to reply as much as you want =)
by Mephisto; ; Report
U don't seem shy at all!! (in a good way)
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