rant abt online aestheticz n more

         this is gonna be a long one cuz ive been passionate about this topic 2 years so yea

      so if youve been been on tiktok or any popular social media youd kinda notice how everything turns into a stupid aesthetic and some kind of brand such as the whole "thought daughter" thing and also some people arent even themselves anymore like youd mfs saying "omg what are wearing this summer" "whats the trendy backpack for the new school year" and to the i say kys and get your own personality isnt of following a stupid trend that will die in, at most, a month.

      with a lot of these aesthetics they kinda turn into a brand of some kind, where the make it seem as if you have to buy certain products to fit into it and consume only a specific kinds of media and look a certain way. so for me personally im a mix of so much shit id say im a mcbling girlie but i also love emo culture and i love poems and classic literature and my interests are kind of all over the place, but thats what makes me Mais not just another mcbling girlie or some shit as people i just believe that we arent supposed to fit in boxes and stupid labels created by the internet or society.

      i hate how people think that they have to completely rebrand themselves and change their personality and interests to fit into a certain aesthetic, label, or stereotype because like you have to realize that youre not a fucking one dimensional character youre a real person youre gonna have multiple sides of yourself that you cant just put a stupid ass label on urself and call it a day. such as with the sad girl aesthetic or coquette whatever you wanna call it where they act like youre sad all the damn time,romanticize mental illness and eds,  and only listen to the same sad artists and like lana del rey and fiona apple (which they make absolute bangers) and thats just impossible you cant feel the one emotion all the damn time we are humans we have multiple emotions and we are supposed to feel all of them this also goes to like the whole self improvement wizardliz were people act like its the opposite where you dont let yourself feel sad and whatever because "its a waste of time" and i just wanna say: 

FEELING YOUR EMOTIONS ISNT A WASTE OF TIME WE NEED TO CRY AND FEEL "NEGATIVE" EMOTIONS JUST AS MUCH AS "POSITIVE" EMOTIONS too much positivity or negativity isnt healthy for us we have to find a balance

     if youre chronically online do you remember how people were all all of a sudden saying "clean girl is OUT messy party girl/mob wife is in" and then mfs were all like "omg fr i always hated the clean girl aesthetic i was never meant to be one" and to that i say WHO TF WAS FORCING U TO BE A CLEAN GIRL IN THE FIRST PLACE LIKE GO OUTSIDE GET A MFING PERSONALITY FIND GOD DO SOMETHING IMPORTANT WITH UT LIFE FFS STOP FOLLOWING STUPID ASS TRENDS and then were people being like "omg clean girl is out what am i supposed to do with all the clothes i bought for it" i have an answer for maybe just keep wearing them like tf just cuz something isnt trendy or in anymore doesnt mean you cant enjoy it anymore like cmon dude

     also trends are so damn short lived and overdone nowadays its so annoying, like the whole coquette ribbons n bows epidemic last winter like they were everyone then you had people suddenly saying they were out and boring LIKE BITCH THEYRE RIBBONS FYM THEYRE OUT OF FASHION TF

      anyways i think thats all i have to say rn i might make a part II so tell me yall want it. i know this isnt that serious or deep but this was fun to write and hope you guys enjoyed reading! :D

xoxo

-Mais <3